"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Male Role Models

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As many have observed, men have fewer masculine role models these days, even compared to the 1980's when most members were born. However, we need to go back to 1960 and see what men were like before we had The Pill (when Womens Lib and Feminism changed everything).

One of the best TV shows ever was Secret Agent Man (aka Danger Man) circa 1960. Though he's not as popular now, Patrick McGoohan was the man. He was chosen as the original James Bond but he turned it down to have a less violent show, and was later The Prisoner. Although he never seduces women as Secret Agent Man per se, he always handles himself perfectly around them: a Gentleman who knows how to put a woman in her place where appropriate. He also dresses superbly in a style that remains classic today. No wonder this show has been buried by today's Feminist media.

You must watch this scene at 17:00 where the woman smacks him in The Honeymooners (how to handle her dumping you).

Then watch this scene at 5:30 where the New York character he imposes as tells the wife to get out (how many of us should initiate NC). The whole 9 minutes is a classic episode though from Name Date Place (it has another scene worth seeing at 3:11).

Who are your male role models?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Subology

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Mr role models are mostly fictional. Master Yehudi from Mr. Vertigo; any protagonist in a Raymond Chandler or Dashiel Hammett novel; Hayden Caulfield; etc.
 

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All time: James Dean, Young Hugh Hefner

Current: Jon Hamm, Michael Fassbender
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Who Dares Win

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Tony Stark if movies can be taken seriously, as much as I consider Sean Connery in 007 superior I think Im more similar to Tony Stark in Iron man.

He simply does what he wants giving consideration to critique only when they have a solid point, he is ambitious and doesnt hide it while having no problems to challenge authorities.

He doesnt even hyde his desire for good looking women or getting the scene for himself and doesnt bother himself and other with fake displays of humbliness.

So the mix of good qualities like ambition and dedication to his work while at the same time a unapologetic and greedy attitude for the rewards he seek.

No signs of approval seeking behaviour or weakness while confronted nor any sign of interest toward shaming techniques or potential risks.
 

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The problem with this thread is that most people will talk about movie stars. These dudes are actors bros. They are ACTING like alphas. James Dean even had a very specific persona he used on camera.

Be your own role model. The beauty of this site is that we know how to act now. We know exactly what we should do in every situation but we figure because we have this knowledge, we can overcome the consequences of betraying our instincts. There are no "role models." Especially not anymore. Take control of your own life. Be someone ELSES role model. If you want to talk about your favorite movies and actors start a thread on it.

The being said, I like Tyler Durden.
 

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How about the character of Gene Hunt from Life on Mars and Ashes to Ashes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JumpOff said:
Hank Moody
I really like how hank moody handles women and seems pretty realistic,

however there are quite a few flaws in this caracter. like not taking care of himself, being inresponsible, and not caring about anything.

Sure, on television he looks great, driving drunk, using drugs, getting into fights and passing out in his convertable, but in the real world these thing dont work out so well..
 

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I also like old school actors. James Dean, Marlon Brando, Clint Eastwood.. shoot, i actually like those cowboy movies..

I also like pretty boys like Leo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt, the ones where they take manly roles.
 
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