Male Power Move or Bad Move

[DJnoob]

Im gona sum this up really quick:
(This isn;t a Bull sh1t story i made up, its real)

Theres this attention ***** at work (first attention ***** I;ve been experimenting on since I started reading this DJ stuff)
she flirts with everyone, she hugs me SUPER TIGHT (not sure if she hugs other people),but when she's around me she usually initiates the hugging

Ive already let her know that I want her but I don't need her. Last week, some major flirting between us happened in the back room after I payed not much attention to her that day.

HB7.5 enters the room and walks across infront of me on purpose. I then slapped her ass hard.

then she turns around with that big "oHH, OMG I cant believe you just did that" on her face with a smile

HB: "did you know i can file for sexual herrasment (with a smile on her face)"
Me: So, youre freaking hugging me all the time thats sexual harrasement too..

She then brings up about how she now lives in an apartment on her own again...

Me: "so, what are we gona do about that"

HB: Smiles.. What time are you off?
Me: "6:30"
HB: "6:30.." (pulls out her cell phone out of her pocket)
Me: no way... So any of your roomates home?
HB: well I have a 15 year old brother who lives with me
Me: 15 year old brother? so that means.. he's always home. Thats not a good thing..
HB: (big smile on her face)
HB: "Hug me!"
Me: (I just stared at her..)
HB: (grabs me and hugs me)
Me: Common, emily, ask for my number already, you know you want it. Make a move already
HB: (smiles) I want it but I know you won't give it.
HB: We'll have to see where this goes..

bla bla bal and so on..........

**I am now using the pull and push method to see if this will work**

Today, we were in the same room again and she said hi to me and I just waived at her.

As I was about to leave the room she says
HB: "Happy valentines day"
Me: "Same to you" with my back facing her as I continue to walk
HB: "DJnoob.., djnoob, DJNOOB!"
Me: (I turn around) "huh, what?"
HB: "wheres my valentines day hug? hug me"
Me: "I can't, I'm busy right now" and leaves the room

*BTW I never hugged her when she told me to hug her*

Feedbacks?

 

[backbreaker]

........

you mean you didn't **** the day before? I couldn't get past that part..

Oh you blew it... I mean, has the words..

"Improvising" or "challenge" mean anything to you?

If I ask a girl what time she gets off work and does she have any kids at home, and the only response is my little brother is at home all the time, SHE'S GIVING IT UP THAT NIGHT.. It might take some figuring out, but nothing I can't handle

How about this... Why not go to YOUR house?

The kid isn't in preschool, he's freakin 15, he can manage for an hour or so.

Or hell, take her out for "drinks" which will lead back to "your place"


This is how you can tell the people who still see the "game" as a means to the end, and it's not their personality.. becuase they don't know when to do what.

What I mean by that... when she is telling you no one lives with her but her little brother, that's not the time to be trying to "act like you don't need her" or "playing hard to get"

I mean, it's a fine line, very fine line between ahrd to get and clueless

What more does she have to do?

I can't believe she put pvssy pie on a freakin silver platter and you are worried about a freakin hug
:crackup:

that's the most ass backwards logic I have ever heard

That's like getting a girl to give you a BJ, and wondering does it mean anything that she went out with her BF the next night


let me stop... Okay, you must make a move, a real move, soon, because she will probably think or is already thinking you are sexually inept or gay, neither is what you want.

You were on freakin third base, half way home and didn't even get thrown out.. you volentarly went into the dugout

Just wait for the opprotuntiy to present itself and make an offer to her.. from the sounds of it she likes you, but you had the right idea with not being needy... but you don't want to not be needy to the point that you miss the entire point of gaming her

 

[DJnoob]

Dude, she's an attention *****.. and Im not sure if she does this to other guys

BTW, she's only 18. She lives with her brother who is 15.

Man... ok thanks for the reply. I'm just not used to being liked by other women in the past. Ive always been the "chubby" guy until lately.....

Originally posted by backbreaker
........

you mean you didn't **** the day before? I couldn't get past that part..

Oh you blew it... I mean, has the words..

"Improvising" or "challenge" mean anything to you?

If I ask a girl what time she gets off work and does she have any kids at home, and the only response is my little brother is at home all the time, SHE'S GIVING IT UP THAT NIGHT.. It might take some figuring out, but nothing I can't handle

How about this... Why not go to YOUR house?

The kid isn't in preschool, he's freakin 15, he can manage for an hour or so.

Or hell, take her out for "drinks" which will lead back to "your place"


This is how you can tell the people who still see the "game" as a means to the end, and it's not their personality.. becuase they don't know when to do what.

What I mean by that... when she is telling you no one lives with her but her little brother, that's not the time to be trying to "act like you don't need her" or "playing hard to get"

I mean, it's a fine line, very fine line between ahrd to get and clueless

What more does she have to do?

I can't believe she put pvssy pie on a freakin silver platter and you are worried about a freakin hug
:crackup:

that's the most ass backwards logic I have ever heard

That's like getting a girl to give you a BJ, and wondering does it mean anything that she went out with her BF the next night


let me stop... Okay, you must make a move, a real move, soon, because she will probably think or is already thinking you are sexually inept or gay, neither is what you want.

You were on freakin third base, half way home and didn't even get thrown out.. you volentarly went into the dugout

Just wait for the opprotuntiy to present itself and make an offer to her.. from the sounds of it she likes you, but you had the right idea with not being needy... but you don't want to not be needy to the point that you miss the entire point of gaming her

 

[backbreaker]

Originally posted by DJnoob
Dude, she's an attention *****.. and Im not sure if she does this to other guys

BTW, she's only 18. She lives with her brother who is 15.

Man... ok thanks for the reply. I'm just not used to being liked by other women in the past. Ive always been the "chubby" guy until lately.....

I don't give a **** if she is an attention *****.. who cares if she does it to other guys, she wants to **** YOU

There is no such thing as in attention *****.. all women need attention to varing degrees.

What you call an attention ***** is what I call a freak.. woman that enjoys sex.. sometimes with different partners.

You know you want to **** her.. I don't know why you are trying to kid yourself.. if you didn't you wouldn't have made this post.

All I am saying is, you want her, she for what i read, wants you, made it pretty clear she was taking your advances, even if you made them wihtout knowing.

Your point with her only being 18? That's legal isn't it? She can still get banged up just like anyone else over the legal age.

 

[DJnoob]

cool bro, thanks! THanks for waking me up.

As you can probably tell, I was probably having a "sosuave.com moment" when I was playing "hard to get". Sometimes, reading too much of this is bad I think.

Next time I see her, I'm thinking of saying this

me: "hey, emily, i have a new talent"
hb: "what?:
me: "I can lick my eyebrow"

I'll have to test this out tomorrow.

 

[backbreaker]

keep us posted on what happens

 

[DJnoob]

BTW,

there hasnt been much rapport between us. She told me a little abotu herself and what she wants to do in the future and stuff.

So im guessing it is possible to get into a woman's pants without much rapport?

 

[backbreaker]

that's the best way to get into a woman's pants

You really want to throw her for a loop? Wait until the time is right and causally let it slip you are going on a date with a chick you picked up at a bar or something along thoose lines... make her up the antey.

women are very competitive when it comes to men.. if done right, they will literarly fight for the right to spread their legs and let you have your way with them

 

[ethnomethodologist]

First she gave you hardcore signals on that one day. Don't read deep into what I am saying, this is a skim the surface post not meant to make you feel bad... She gave you hard signals, the second day you were way too anxious to get her because the day before you almost KNEW you could. If it continues your going to get the feeling of 'why didn't I do anything"

Never ask yourself that question, it's almost as bad as asking, 'what should I do'.

Second, if you can lick your eyebrow don't show off just for her. Play around with it if you can't though

Third, as soon as she pulled out that cell phone saying 6:30. that wasn't just an IOI, that was an indicator of okay at 6:30 DJNoob is coming to my place to **** me. You should have taken the phone from her hand, grabbed her shoulder and guided her towards you. than give the phone back to her and have her WRITE what she is going to do to you.

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