Male personal trainers at gym vs women playing online games

[2Rocky]

For a guy to say "no male personal trainer" I see that as weaksauce...

If your woman WANTS to cheat, she's going to do it because YOU aren't providing the excitement and validation she wants. It could be with her accountant, or the paper boy. YOu are gonna be the little dutch boy plugging holes with your finger rather than just building a better dam by being the man she cherishes and doesn't want to lose...

 

[Bokanovsky]

For a guy to say "no male personal trainer" I see that as weaksauce...

If your woman WANTS to cheat, she's going to do it because YOU aren't providing the excitement and validation she wants. It could be with her accountant, or the paper boy. YOu are gonna be the little dutch boy plugging holes with your finger rather than just building a better dam by being the man she cherishes and doesn't want to lose...

I can understand where this kind of thinking comes from. It’s appealing to think that one can be fully in control of his destiny. As long as you’re THE MAN, nothing can touch you. By reading stuff online and listening to some coach on YouTube, you can turn yourself into a super stud that no b!tch would even dream of cheating on.

If you actually believe this, you are living in fantasy land.

Whether a woman cheats on you is a combination of three factors: how much she is attracted to you, her moral values (lol) and OPPORTUNITY to cheat. No matter how much of a stud you are, you can’t discount the third factor. Sure, you can say that she can cheat with her accountant, the UPS guy or gas station attendant, but really what are the odds? I personally know of several women who have cheated with a personal trainer. I’ve never heard of a real life example of a woman cheating with a gas station attendant, accountant or delivery man. I’m sure it happens but far less common than the personal trainer scenario.