Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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male gold diggers-is it even possible

joe45

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ok who here has ever heard of a male gold digger? lol i know hey. i was chatting with a online aquintance (girl i chatting with off a online dating place) and she told me how shes been used, and have had dated/bf who was a gold digger. what what a male gold digger. does it even exists.
you always hear about girls wanting guys with the car, the good job, cool clothes and what not, buit have you ever hear about a guy rejecting or even putting a lot of emphasize on their date or gf having a nice ride or even a ride, a great job and what not.
guys usually go for whoever has a hot bod, cute face and is willing to put out.

she told me she bought her bf a car before, diamond ring, and dinners. really a male gold digger. is this even believeable. damn why ssave up for a car, just a girl who can get you the car. lol j/k is it even for real.

how can a guy even be a gold digger. i guess the guy gotta be very good looking, charming, good dresser and complintary to the girl.

i mean you think if a guy is being a gold digger , you think the girl would dump him. cute /hot girls get hit on all the time. they are the ones to choose. why would they pick a gold digger guy when another guy has a good job, and is willing to pay for her and isn;t even a gold digger.

i'm not a gold digger and i have trouble getting girls.

wow how do these gold digger guys do it. do you now any, met any, and how do they do what they do
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They DO exist!!! Some are musicians who shack up with any woman who will support their party lifestyle till she gets wise and stops paying or trys to make him get a real job. Some are artists, some are just very charming guys that are "trying to find themselves" and want the woman to pay the rent, food and weekends at where ever their gypsy hearts take them.

Some of these guys are very handsome, charming and very attentive, women put up with them, especially older women and my age bracket. (It does a 40 year old's ego much good to have a 31 year old stud-muffin on her arm oozing compliments.) Then he finds some one richer...and she gets a note saying he felt "they were going in diffrent directions". And he's off chasing the next checkbook.

Like all gold-diggers, they are lying, scheming, minipulators who will tell you anything you want to hear to get your cash.
Happened to my friend Ella. We all tried to warn her, but she was dazzled by his 8 pack abs and white smile.(Okay...we were all a little dazzled!) She came home to find him gone...along with 3 gold bracelets, a diamond ring and $300 out of her ATM. She was too embarassed to press charges.
 

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Sure is. I've known some and know of many.
 

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I live in Beverly Hills where young hot women marry older men who have money and power. While thee older guys think they did something good for themselves and everyone envies them, young hot wife is off with some male himbo spending her husband's cash on him while hubbie is at work or away on biz. This is so common here and why we say the money here is recycable. LOL! Does anyone really think the hot young wives are being faithful or cheating with another old guy with money??

There are also tons of male goldoiggers dating strippers. Strippers boyfriends are notorious for being moochers who just love to spend the $500-$1,000 per night their girlfriends make. Most are "musicians" who can barely get a gig. So strippers are always broke.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tory Spelling's Husband!
Lee Ann Rhymes' husband who is obviously gay.
 
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Sadly these type of men do exist. They are pathetic, any man who relies on a woman for financial support is a loser, plain and simple. Woman can either be with me or not, but I'll never be with a woman. Ya dig?
 

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The women usually have serious self-esteem issues, or using their rich boyfriend or husband's money to buy a sex toy!
 
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