AlphaDraconis
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2019
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- 38
Nah, man, I’d get busy going deep undercover and doing it for real (if you’re not ready to walk away right now). You bullsh1t her with some imaginary Asian woman, she’ll smell a rat and know you’re doing this in retaliation for her doing this to you.Interesting, I've never heard of this thing in the UK.
Funny enough I spent a year in se Asia back in my 20's... so not unfamiliar with Asian women.
Tbh back at beginning of relationship I did mention to her about chatting to a Colombian girl (based in uk) who was having relationship issues with her husband, which is true, we chat all the time. Used to sleep with each other 15 years back but loosely stayed in touch, then when I divorced 3 years ago things got a bit heated and would definitely be game on if I wanted her at any point... which I don't.
Could just subtly introduce a mythical friend, Asian woman into my life and see how she reacts...
Why would you suggest leaving her now?
Even if you have to hire an out of town Thai escort for a short while, I’d do it. Get a few pics of you together during a meal, walk in the park, then upload to Facebook or whatever. See how she likes those apples.
And why I suggest getting out as the preferable option... you know the set up here. If the boot was on the other foot, do you really think she’d be feeling no competition anxiety? Do you really think she wouldn’t be subtly or outright causing a rift between you and a very close, attractive female friend? Don’t kid yourself, she’s acutely aware of the designated effect all this is having in you. You’re feeling insecure because she’s making you feel this way. All of this constant anxiety just for 2 second orgasmic release here n there... the prize isn’t worth the price.
Guys, like Corey Wayne advise men not to show insecurity over close male friends, but we’re not robots — we feel emotional pain, and there’s only so much you can take. Furthermore, why should any guy opt to be humiliated and disrespected? If you ain’t doing it to her, then she should extend the same courtesy. But it doesn’t work like that for women, as you’ll find out when Mei Ling enters the equation. The demon will rear its ugly head alright.
When I was a little wet behind the ears back in the day, I bought into this new, “progressive” social trend, and even though I felt uneasy about it, I didn’t want to come off as insecure, and foolishly progressed... turned out she’d fvcked most of them, and enjoyed not only playing them off against each other, but also trying to mind fvck me with them (similar to your experience). I eventually smartened up, had enough of her sh1t and just blocked her without any explanation.