Male friends esp. "best friends"

[KontrollerX]

LOL at losers getting insecure.

LOL @ losers not filtering out chicks that display traits they find to be highly undesireable then 6 months later coming back here to b!tch about their girl getting it on with her guy friends behind his back asking us what he should do now.

Bottom line is if you filter out girls that have a lot of guy friends if that is something that bothers you it doesn't make you insecure it makes you smart and setting yourself up for success with what you want not with what someone else thinks you should tolerate in the name of not being "insecure".

Every guy that wants a good relationship with some chick thats set up for success needs to put together a list in his head or on paper whichever works for him of dealbreakers/red flags that he personally considers to be dealbreakers and red flags.

Then when he's out on the hunt for new prospects he automatically weeds these women out and gets with someone he finds to be as hassle free as possible.

This doesn't automatically guarantee a person a perfect relationship for all time until they die as in life there are no guarantees but what it does do is give a guy a much better chance of finding what he wants than to just say yes to the first chick that asks him to be her boyfriend.

 

[KingBeef]

LOL @ losers not filtering out chicks that display traits they find to be highly undesireable then 6 months later coming back here to b!tch about their girl getting it on with her guy friends behind his back asking us what he should do now.

Bottom line is if you filter out girls that have a lot of guy friends if that is something that bothers you it doesn't make you insecure it makes you smart and setting yourself up for success with what you want not with what someone else thinks you should tolerate in the name of not being "insecure".

Every guy that wants a good relationship with some chick thats set up for success needs to put together a list in his head or on paper whichever works for him of dealbreakers/red flags that he personally considers to be dealbreakers and red flags.

Then when he's out on the hunt for new prospects he automatically weeds these women out and gets with someone he finds to be as hassle free as possible.

This doesn't automatically guarantee a person a perfect relationship for all time until they die as in life there are no guarantees but what it does do is give a guy a much better chance of finding what he wants than to just say yes to the first chick that asks him to be her boyfriend.

Well said

 

[Vice]

Pass out drunk at your place? That man guy can find better chicks than ones that hang out with douchebags like you 1984. You should be passing out drunk at women's houses. You're holding that woman back from living her life. Get some balls and make a move on her--hanging out with a chick all the time? Good Lord. Waste of a read.

trv26 there's a number of possibilities that could be happening with that chick and her "bff" guy. The possibility that the guy she hangs around all the time is a prissy little wank is only one of them. It's not insecure to ditch a woman that would rather play barbies with her guy pal. There's women out there that would die for your time.

You DO understand the concept of being FRIENDS with a woman, right? Because it seems that your mindset says that EVERY girl friend you have MUST sleep with your or at least have some kind of physical relationship. He never said that he was interested in her, and it's further reinforced by the fact that he mentioned that she started dating someone else right after the breakup, and his failure to mention any feelings about it. And what's a "man guy"?

Stop being a jerk, it only shows everyone on here that you're insecure.

 

[3countriesPlan]

male friends are usually pvssy bois who you don't have to worry about, or your gf is not that hot and he doesn't want to tap it anyways.. but if the guy seems dangerous and interested in her and she is still not giving him reason not to be.. then you should be worried and think about a plan of action then.