Male Freinds

[THA REALNESS]

Latley i've been going through a phase........A Man-hating phase. It's like i can't seem to click or make any new freinds any REAL freinds even if i try to . It's like i catch narcolepsy when i deal with guys my age they're so LAME man.

I have lost interest in making any lasting freindships since junior year in HS. It's not an anti-social thing either because i still have my buddys from HS and even junior high and have guys and hang out with at college....but it's not the same as having a homie.Feel me?I have to admit i feel sorta bad about it yet sort of indiffernt and curious as to why i have virtually no interst in making an emotional attachment to males?

The funny thing is i used to be the most obnoxios kid on the block everybody knew everything about me and i never really had any traumatic social experiences i had acne when i was 12 and i was skinny until i was like 16 but no one bothered me over it and i never had a problem with it ,so what the hell?

It's like for a someone to even grab ny attention for more than 5 minutes has to have titties and a vagina other than that i'm on my daily grind at school and then just come home and hang with whoever drops buy my crib.

The point is I AM NOT INTERSTED IN NEW PEOPLE AT ALL.I DON'T THINK IT'S NORMAL.


Am i just cold-hearted?
Has this happened to you?
I'm i getting old?
Is this the first sign of being gay ?
Do i look fat?

 

[THA REALNESS]

I'M your freind THA REALNESS.


THA REALNESS: ThNX DOGG!.

 

[Julian]

Yo realness, i feel you to the maximum extent.

I havent made a friend in 2 years. The last friend i made, is currently my best friend. People use the term "friend" too loosely, ive mentioned this before on these boards.

Im a lonewolf. Reason being that everyone in my city is a fuccing dumbsh1t. Seriously, alot of people around here are ignorant and close minded. Im not from here and my current good friend isnt either, maybe thats why we clique.

We are completely different people, but still have a sh1tload in common.

I may have a pessimistic outlook towards the general male populace, as you do. However, thats not whats keeping me from making friends. Its just that all the guys i meet i have nothing in common with.

My mom always tells me to meet new people in new jobs, ive gone thru 3 jobs in the last few months and i can tell you i havent met 1 friend worthy person. Just a bunch of dumb bastards.

Its not that i dont give people a chance, I DO. Its just that i havent met any interesting people. Its like everyone is so cookie cutter. The monotony is very prevalent, and apparently this is acceptable to most commoners.

But not me. I long for a glamorous life of debauchery and sexual escapades with beautiful women, with my pimped out homies by my side.

Its like, every guy i know is AFC. Seriously. I havent met a DJ since my current friend.

Plus it gets kind of boring bossing people around all the time. If im with a group of guys im calling the shots and guys obediently follow my orders. Now my friend i consider my equal,altho i like to outshine him sometimes, but i guess thats due to my greedy nature growing up as an only child.

Fucc it man, friends are overrated. You just need a couple, everyone else is baggage. As long as you got those homies you know are down to ride or die then its all good.

 

[THA REALNESS]

That's exactly what people tell me ...to find other people outside my little kliq ..and i do but it just doesn't feel right ya know ??i feel like i'm bossing people around too ..not cuz i want to cuz if i didn't we wouldn't hang with any hoes and we didn't do sh1t all day and i HATE being in that position where i'm like always having to call the shots.



And it's not a Dj --Afc thing with me,it's just that i'm not feeling people like that anymore .I'm glad to see i'm not the only one.

 

[jakethasnake]

This isn't a message to anyone in particular.


As you get older, friendships get much, MUCH more complicated. It's not just relationships with women, so don't be so neurotic.... you're going thru this thing called 'growing up'. And get used to it, coz it often gets worse.


In addition, I think that a lot of guys here who adhere to the DJ principle of 'not settling for less' will find themselves to be lonely. That piece of advice was only meant for women, but I have a feeling that a lot of stupid guys, especially kids, apply this to every single damn facet of their lives. "Someone gave you a look didn't smile? Fcvk you! Your mom didn't make you what you wanted for dinner? Fvck you! Your girlfriend was being difficult for a week because she was feeling momentarily insecure? Fvck you!"


All this business of 'nexting' and 'settling for nothing but the best' is some stupid arrogant-ass shyt. I say this because there is a difference between being arrogant and actually being JUSTIFIED to act that way, and being arrogant to prop up your empty self-esteem. Know your place in the world, azzholes.


It will make some of you question your priorities and current (artificial) value systems when I say this: SOME OF YOU DO NOT DESERVE THE BEST. Yes, I said it. The great majority of you have worked for nothing. I'm not talking about working hard at Dominoes after school to make pocket money, nor am I talking about getting good grades and doing lot of charity work.


Basically, this sense of self-entitlement is what's alienating male friends from you, and you from them. You think that no one is good enough, and most people think you're colossal azzholes. Humility backed by incredible passion and talent will make everyone in awe of you and subservient to you. Either that or brute strength, but that's not accepted in today's society.

 

[THA REALNESS]

What the **** are you talking about ???


Read all of my post.I clearly said that i HAVE FREINDS i have a problem finding new ones ...and this WAAAY befrore i was a DJ.I also said it wasn't an AFC thing anyways .