"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Male Escort, Advice Needed

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I have recently signed up with a male escorting company. I'm at university and struggling abit financially and this job would earn me over 10 times an hour what a normal job would, so obviously this seemed a good idea. I looked into this company, its a straight escorting service, so I'd only be taking out women. It also has a no sex policy, so the women I would be taking out would not be expecting anything of me, and if they did want more, it would be up to me what I did, so no problems there. So basically when I get started I get paid alot, to go out to nice places, although I'm sure I'll be accompanying unattractive women.

I'm looking for abit of advice on what I should expect from this, if anyone else is/was an escort what was it like for them? How ugly are the women and is it likely they'll expect more than just a date for the evening.

I'm only 18 which is my main worry, and I look young too (about 17/18). I'm quite good looking and I've been into the whole DJ thing for about 18 months. I have no problems with girls around my own age, but I'm worried about how to deal with these older women. My first client is 35 and I'm sure many of them will be older than that. I'm sure the same principles apply to women this age, but I'm worried they might think its abit weird when someone who looks my age turns up. If I have to accompany them to parties I think they might be abit disappointed about showing up with me infront of their friends or work mates as I would look alot younger than her. So basically, does anyone have any advice on how I could go about impressing a woman alot older than me so she doesn't feel let down by the date (and to ensure i get paid :p ). Also if people could advise me on good things to say/do when on the date it would be much appreciated.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wow...18.......i was 23. when i joined...you supposed to be at that age to join escort service..............anyways.....yes there will be ugly and beautiful ladies in this field......but hey....i am sure you are crismatic person.......otherwise they wouldn't hire you.....you already should know......but just act confident and charming....try to give all your attention to that lady.after all... she will be the one paying you....*_^ .......just follow her leads...don't try to seduce her..unless she pays you..,,...just don't do anything for free.
 

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This is great. Definitely keep us posted on how this goes. I'm very interested in how you do, and how the male escort industry operates.

I haven't done this before so I'm not the one to give advice. Good thing serial_kisser is around! I'd say watch James Bond movies and work on body language. Better to be the quiet mysterious guy, than the one everyone knows is an 18yo male escort...

Fill me in,
 

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Is there really a no sex policy, or is that just the official line? Methinks you've become a man *****...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jariel

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I have just started looking into escort work myself as I'm also a student in debt and it sounds like decent work and the pay is amazing.

Please keep us updated on your assignments and everything as I'd be very interested to hear how it goes.
 

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As long as your friends and other girls(future prospects to sarge) dont see you hanging out on dates with an ugly fat 50 yr old woman its all good.
 

The Juan and only

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it sounds like decent work and the pay is amazing

maybe but being an "escort" (man wh0re) just isn't my style, I would find it degrading and its certainly not a very DJ thing to do.


and btw, don't kid yourself, most if not all of the women will be ugly/old/etc....or else they wouldn't need to pay..it makes sense if you think about it.

Look, if you want a job where you can meet attractive women then work in a clothes store...preferably in the lingerie department;)
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
and btw, don't kid yourself, most if not all of the women will be ugly/old/etc....or else they wouldn't need to pay..it makes sense if you think about it.
Of course, but I wouldn't do it to meet women (I already have a GF). I'd just do it to make some money and pay off debts. If they're ugly it's no big deal, cos you won't have to make out/have sex with them...unless it's a dodgy escort/prostitution agency, but I'd never get involved in anything like that.
 

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So do you have to pay for the dates (ex: client wants to go dinner, does she pay?)
 

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where do u apply for work as a male escort- i wanna try it-good money -oh yeaaaaa.
i live in vancouver area
 

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Originally posted by Sp1kez
So do you have to pay for the dates (ex: client wants to go dinner, does she pay?)
The general rule is that she pays for all your expenses, including dinner, drinks and travel, on top of your hourly rate. The clients understand this when they sign up with the agency.

I'm still on the verge of applying. I've found a reputable agency in the UK and I feel I'd be perfect for it, but I'm still quite cautious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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