SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
Yeah, I must admit... I am guilty of slumming POF because at this time I am just not up to getting out and about and doing my thing. While doing the slumming, I have noticed the attention hoes in full effect. I also like the ones and there are a lot that point out they are SINGLE MOMs. They love putting that mess on their profile.
That single mom garbage turns me completely off as well as the ones that have a zillion kids. At my age, I do not have children and it could be a good thing or a bad thing depending on how you look at it, but many women have at least three kids and I see some with several. If their kids are still young, how in the world do they have time for anything meaningful other than "cheap meaningful sex?" I am past the hit it and quit stage I might add.
Anyways, which brings me to the title of the post, Male Ego vs. The Attention Hoe. I have unattractive types hitting me up telling me, "You are handsome, and similar stuff such as that." It is nice to hear, but it does not stroke my ego!!! I have never had a huge ego problem, but I digress....
Point I am getting to is this: If a woman I was attracted were to have said kind words, it would BE somewhat a different story. Not blowing up my ego, but me liking the mutual interest. Now the attention seeking hoe does not care where the attention comes from as she eats it up like a fat girl does Krispy Kreme! Sure she would rather some Greek God give the attention, but marks it up as she has many options and is marketable.
I have always despised men with huge egos and it is sickening to see it first hand so I try and keep mine in check. Do you keep yours in check? I would not want to appear like the attention hoe personally and wonder how many guys on dating sites use it for attention like women? Any idea? Seems like a waste of time to me.
Finally, being an Alpha male does not mean Ego problem to me. Being confident is a great thing!!!
Cheers!!!
That single mom garbage turns me completely off as well as the ones that have a zillion kids. At my age, I do not have children and it could be a good thing or a bad thing depending on how you look at it, but many women have at least three kids and I see some with several. If their kids are still young, how in the world do they have time for anything meaningful other than "cheap meaningful sex?" I am past the hit it and quit stage I might add.
Anyways, which brings me to the title of the post, Male Ego vs. The Attention Hoe. I have unattractive types hitting me up telling me, "You are handsome, and similar stuff such as that." It is nice to hear, but it does not stroke my ego!!! I have never had a huge ego problem, but I digress....
Point I am getting to is this: If a woman I was attracted were to have said kind words, it would BE somewhat a different story. Not blowing up my ego, but me liking the mutual interest. Now the attention seeking hoe does not care where the attention comes from as she eats it up like a fat girl does Krispy Kreme! Sure she would rather some Greek God give the attention, but marks it up as she has many options and is marketable.
I have always despised men with huge egos and it is sickening to see it first hand so I try and keep mine in check. Do you keep yours in check? I would not want to appear like the attention hoe personally and wonder how many guys on dating sites use it for attention like women? Any idea? Seems like a waste of time to me.
Finally, being an Alpha male does not mean Ego problem to me. Being confident is a great thing!!!
Cheers!!!