"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fluffy

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It feels like in 20 years women will out number men in high paying jobs anyway.
Im basing this on what Im seeing at uni, more girls than guys, they also have a better work ethic and are as smart if not smarter than guys. Not to mention that females are more socially developed than guys.

Us guys are doomed, and by 'us' I mean 'you' coz Im better than everyone :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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more women attend universities because universities have become feminized and women want to attain fluff degrees solely for the status

Women are not more socially developed than guys. Guys just pay attention to women because they look pretty.

Who are the ones who have to lead relationships? Guys. Who are the ones who initiate marriage proposals? Guys. Who are the ones who lead governments and corporations? Guys. It takes a lot of effort to become a real man, much more effort than it takes to be a woman. That's why you see a lot of loser guys these days.
 

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ill pay the fluff degree, you see more chicks doing useless degrees here like Arts and Business.
The vocational degrees like medicine, engineering etc are either 50/50 or male dominated.

By more developed socially Im referring about women be able to read social situations and hence react accordingly, that is better emotionally developed than men. Im talking averages here. Im not comparing your average person to 'true men' or 'born leaders' or whatever ideal is created on this site.
 

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Fluffy said:
, that is better emotionally developed than men.

:crackup: You can't be serious.

I'm telling you, the smartest thing to come out of most women's mouths was a man's penis.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rata Blanca said:
What a big ego we have, don't we?

And I for one, am better for it!

That whole article was complete bulls.hit! Men killing themselves over women? Guess what? Women do the same damn thing! More work is involved in playing a woman than playing a man?! Yeah, girls have a special tool called boobs. It has nothing to do with women being more intelligent. I could shoot down everything that article has to say but I don't feel like wasting my time.

I just lost all respect for Pook. What a sell out.
 

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he's not talking about actual intelligence; he's talking about the ability to manipulate. And he's probably right. Most guys let women push them around.
 
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