Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Maksim Gelman A F*ckin Total Afc!!!

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I don't listen to the news all that much but everyone in my area is talkin about this story of the madman so obsessed with not getting this specific girl that he killed ppl out of frustration

Well I'm not gonna make light of this tragedy but I will say that while I was reading this story all I could think of was his lack of pua knowledge which, IMO, cldve saved all this tragedy. Here is a guy so freakin frustrated that he even killed ppl in his own family. If he only came to a site like this one & started getting some solid advice. At the very least he wldve gotten support!

This tragedy is a testament to the importance of having that DJ confidence. And sites like this one are a big help.

It took me a couple mnths after a bad ltr breakup, to stop being a chump... but I'm back with a vengeance suckin up all the knowledge(& boobies) that I can!

Lifes too short
DON'T BE AN AFC!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NoCommitments said:
I don't listen to the news all that much but everyone in my area is talkin about this story of the madman so obsessed with not getting this specific girl that he killed ppl out of frustration

Well I'm not gonna make light of this tragedy but I will say that while I was reading this story all I could think of was his lack of pua knowledge which, IMO, cldve saved all this tragedy. Here is a guy so freakin frustrated that he even killed ppl in his own family. If he only came to a site like this one & started getting some solid advice. At the very least he wldve gotten support!
support in getting girl? :confused:
the guy killed a bunch of poeple and you want to put pick up skills into his hands...?
fair enough.
 

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BBbardot said:
support in getting girl? :confused:
the guy killed a bunch of poeple and you want to put pick up skills into his hands...?
fair enough.
I think he meant it in a way to release they guys frustration. Getting rejected by 10, 20 or simply every girl you ever talk to could be pretty frustrating....
 

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Rethnu said:
I think he meant it in a way to release they guys frustration. Getting rejected by 10, 20 or simply every girl you ever talk to could be pretty frustrating....
Life's frustrating but that doesn't mean you seek revenge against people who were not even involved. I don't sympathize with him at all frustrated or not.

He wasn't an AFC, he went full psycho.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wonder if he would ever even come to this site. His situation was pretty extreme. Do you think he would want to learn anything at all? You can't teach someone who is close-minded. As good as this site is, I think it would be meaningless. I can write: Maksim Gelman, it's just a girl, she isn't that important. But maybe he would read this, and it would just come in one ear and leave the other one. If you wanna learn, you're awesome, that is pretty fly and cool of you already. Great for you! : D I hope we can all spot who are the people that are worth the energy we put into giving advice. Peace all!

But who knows, maybe if the frigging Budha himself came to have a chat with him his words would be so powerful that even him, a serial killer, would be blown away! :D
 
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