Making the RIGHT decision...

[The Comeback Kid]

While we are all trying to be very successful with women, you need to keep in mind what the "right" thing to do in a given situation would be. I have a little tale from an event tonight, with my "tip" at the bottom.

I was hanging out at a off-campus house with a few friends. One of them knows a girl that is very attractive. I would ask the friend that knows her to help me get in contact with her...but he really "likes" her! I had met her once before, and she was stopping by once again tonight. When I met this girl the first time (a few weeks back), my friend was simply saying he "liked" her and was promoting a good-natured competition to make it fun. Our other friends were into this too.

Well, fast forward to tonight. My friend now REALLY likes her, she's really in his head. When I realized his feelings for her (he kept talking about her), I told him that if he is head over heels for her, I will not get in the way! My friend respected my "backing out" of sorts. The girl only stayed around for a few minutes (he was talking to her for the most part). When she left, he was pretty sure she isn't into him, but he may make a move just to see what happens (although a "yes" is unlikely).

What's the tip here? Well, I bolded the part above that is involved. In situations regarding a friend...PUT YOURSELF IN THEIR SHOES...and you will know what the right decision would be. You'll see into their mindset and you'll also see how you would like things to go if the situation was reversed and you were on the spot. For instance, I pretended I really "liked" a girl I knew for awhile, and I woudn't want my friends hitting on her. This is really a basic tip, but I feel it's one that is overlooked.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Having respect for your friends is an important tip, however for most men it is a belief hard to follow. One of my friends has no respect for me whenever I try to get at a woman, and I have no respect for him as well. I don't care if I was ****blocking him or not. I even talked to him about it, he still does it. Though for the few friends that I have that show respect for me when I'm gaming women, I do the same. Just a couple weeks ago my friend thought one of my homegirls was really cute, I helped him and introduced them to each other, and later that night he got her number and even thanked me.

A great tip though I just wanted to add that one thing.

 

[noirsake]

Bros before hoes. Thats why if I see a girl I'm interested in, I jump on it before my AFC friends fall in love with her...