Making the first move

[joeguy9]

Yeah, here's my story. I'm starting college right, and I've been flirting with this girl here for a few days. We haven't really gone out or anything but we've done some light flirting (sharing a chair with me having my arm around her waist and rubbing her leg, me tickling her, or her giving me a pinch or a touch whenever she walks by me). Also we went to a party with some friends and came back and fell asleep together on a sofa in the dorm. Although we live in the same dorm vicinity, she still has called me a couple of times just to find out what I'm doing and if she can come over (every now and then she just drops by). I hang out in her place and stuff like that. Now that you know the history, the real deal is, last night we were on her bed and I was about to leave and while she gave me a hug she shunned my attempt to make a pass at her. How would a true Don Juan approach a woman for the kiss?

Joe, who's still trying to figure this one out

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by joeguy9
How would a true Don Juan approach a woman for the kiss?

Kiss her as soon as possible.

When I go on a first date, I always kiss close. There is no excuse for not kissing her as soon as possible. It makes you look weak and scared if you don't.

Start off with some kino and then move in for the kiss.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by joeguy9
last night we were on her bed and I was about to leave and while she gave me a hug she shunned my attempt to make a pass at her. How would a true Don Juan approach a woman for the kiss?

Joe, who's still trying to figure this one out

Uh-oh, you have intered THE FRIEND ZONE!!! It sounds as if you are around for her ego. I suggest leaving her alone for a while, no contact what so ever. If she comes back to you with a higher IL, then you may have a chance.

 

[killerasp]

dude....having a relationship when the girl is in the same dorm is hard.

its hard because you always see her. if you see her too much, things will get uninteresting.

ive been in your situation before. i was seeing this girl that lived only 5 doors down from my room. although, we werent in the friend zone, i got sick of seeing her soo much. when i tried not to see her so often, she started to wonder what was going on. eventually i broke it up b/c i just got sick of her.

try not to be around so often or not pick up the phone. its kinda hard to pretend to not be around b/c she can just come down to your room and see if you are there. put some space btw you and her for now and take things slow. have some dinner with her once in a while so you will have something to talk about.

What do you mean, you tried to pass her and she snugged it? a pass? you tried to kiss her and she turned her head? is that what you are trying to say. if this is true, well...maybe take things slower and turn up the kino. when the time is right, try again. if she snubbs you then you know whats really going on.

 

[Player_Supreme]

just take the kiss. before you do play with her a little. act like your going to kiss her by letting your lips brush near her mouth or nose on your way to whisper in her ear.

Only talk in her ear, this will turn her on. by constantly brushing near her lips your will get her anticipating the kiss. When your tired of teasing her go for it.....and you better make it passionate.

Women judge how you boff by that first kiss, so make it count. Let all of your passion out and you will be in there like flynt