"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Making The Exit With Women

bachelor

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http://www.blogmackin.com/2007/08/11/making-the-exit-with-women/

One of the most critical factors in improving your game will be having the confidence to make the exit with a girl. Making the exit, puts you in complete control and also lets the girl know that you are the prize.


My problem used to be oh this girl is really attractive I wanna keep talking to her… I used to keep talking to her and then she would be like I have to go. I began to realize that the exit is very critical. Here is an example where I have made the exit:

1. Me- (At the Supermarket) I walked by a really hot blonde in the pasta section… Hey, so ur making pasta I love to cook Italian…

Her: Really? I was going to have some friends over for dinner…

Me: That’s kool… Well whats ur number we should hang out sometime…

Her: Leaves the number and starts talking more…

Me: Listen I’m in a hurry, it was nice talkin to ya maybe ill call u sometime…

What I did in this scenario was put myself in control of the situation by making the exit. Had I let her make the exit, I would have given her the power in the situation. Remember you are a busy guy and she is wasting your time not the other way around.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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amoka

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That was relatively a short conversation. This girl either supplied you with a fake number or thought she has "made a friend at the super market." Or a whore. In the future, try escallating the converstation a bit more longer and in a direction to entise.
 

bachelor

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I shortened down the convo figured i didnt want everyone to read a paragraph... Ill extend it on my next post. And I did get her real number lol
 
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