"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Making The Exit With Women

bachelor

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http://www.blogmackin.com/2007/08/11/making-the-exit-with-women/

One of the most critical factors in improving your game will be having the confidence to make the exit with a girl. Making the exit, puts you in complete control and also lets the girl know that you are the prize.


My problem used to be oh this girl is really attractive I wanna keep talking to her… I used to keep talking to her and then she would be like I have to go. I began to realize that the exit is very critical. Here is an example where I have made the exit:

1. Me- (At the Supermarket) I walked by a really hot blonde in the pasta section… Hey, so ur making pasta I love to cook Italian…

Her: Really? I was going to have some friends over for dinner…

Me: That’s kool… Well whats ur number we should hang out sometime…

Her: Leaves the number and starts talking more…

Me: Listen I’m in a hurry, it was nice talkin to ya maybe ill call u sometime…

What I did in this scenario was put myself in control of the situation by making the exit. Had I let her make the exit, I would have given her the power in the situation. Remember you are a busy guy and she is wasting your time not the other way around.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That was relatively a short conversation. This girl either supplied you with a fake number or thought she has "made a friend at the super market." Or a whore. In the future, try escallating the converstation a bit more longer and in a direction to entise.
 

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I shortened down the convo figured i didnt want everyone to read a paragraph... Ill extend it on my next post. And I did get her real number lol
 
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