Making the Difference In Text

[70th Win]

I've been feeling really confident around girls recently and I've been getting a lot of numbers from girls I wouldn't have been able to pull 2 years ago. When I ask I already know the interest is high and have only been rejected twice.

I've never texted a girl and have her ignore me right off the bat, but a lot of times they stop responding after a while, especially when they're in the 18-20 age range.

I've always tried keeping text conversations to a minimum. I make some very light small talk and if things go good I'll try to set up a date. If a girl stops responding or has an excuse why she can't go out, I usually don't respond again unless she keeps the conversation going, and I'll give it a second chance.

Do any of you have any tips for texting younger girls and keeping them interested? I feel like a lot of girls in that age range are using Snapchat, IG and all that and I'm not very active on social media. I feel like I'm missing something when it comes to text game. I'm definitely not coming across as desperate or needy, but something is off. Any tips/examples would be appreciated or just tell you've noticed similar behavior.

How long are yall texting a girl without getting a date from her? For example if you get rejected do you keep light convo and try again after some time or do you drop her right away?

 

[CMNILS87]

Get her number. Wait 3 days-week.

Text her

You: hey, remember me, mr handsome from the bar. I'm free Tuesday night, blah blah blah.

If she's attracted to you, there's no need to "build comfort"

 

[therobman7]

Good question! There was a girl i text a little bit a while back. She couldn't do one day, but she offered a day I wasn't free. two weeks later, we just couldn't make our schedules match up and she said it would have to be on a weekend. That was a month ago. Should I try one more time? How do i proceed?

 

[SmooveMooves]

The social media route is what you'really missing. Speaking as a young guy, it's easier to get a girls snapchat and maneuver from there as it pertains to women in the 18-21 range.

If you have a cool life social media can also benefit you if you learn to use it "appropriately." (As a high value man)

 

[CMNILS87]

Good question! There was a girl i text a little bit a while back. She couldn't do one day, but she offered a day I wasn't free. two weeks later, we just couldn't make our schedules match up and she said it would have to be on a weekend. That was a month ago. Should I try one more time? How do i proceed?

everyones super busy these days. Sometimes its hard to match up schedules. Especially young chicks, theyre gonna have dudes and tons of friends hitting them up for social events 24/7

 

[El Payaso]

If she's interested, she'll make it happen even if you used snail mail to communicate with her.

 

[70th Win]

Good responses so far. I got a response back from a girl who stopped responding a couple days ago. She said "hey sorry I've been busy what's good" or something like that. Guess I'll text back later and see where it goes.

She's 19 and hot so I know she's getting a lot of attention and plus it was Halloween weekend which I completely forgot about.