So we've kissed goodnight a couple of times. But they've all been just quick ones. Any tips on how you guys transitioned into making out without asking her? I know she likes me but she might be a bit too nervous or afraid to get "intimate".
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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- Thread starter Faze
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SomethingCreative
Don Juan
I think it is always better to transition from kissing to making out. The problem is that you are only kissing goodnight, find a time when you can kiss her during the date/while you are hanging out or whatever so that you have more time to. By the time you say goodbye, it is probably too late because that means you are not together thus you can't do anything.
Leon Phelps
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Making out is not intimate
****ing is intimate
not making out
Just ****in touch her, and kiss her a lot, and it should be natural.
And stop worrying
****ing is intimate
not making out
Just ****in touch her, and kiss her a lot, and it should be natural.
And stop worrying
Originally posted by Faze
So we've kissed goodnight a couple of times. But they've all been just quick ones. Any tips on how you guys transitioned into making out without asking her? I know she likes me but she might be a bit too nervous or afraid to get "intimate".
Just move in and go for the full thing, have her round your place and watch a romantic movie all cuddled up, then get really close and speak to her quietly and just move in. You can't transition into it at the end of the date, because there is an air of finality. It appears to me that you are also nervous of getting intimate or else you might have tried it already. If shes insecure, make her feel secure, but dont lose your power over her.
its just a kiss, you dont need to wait till the end. if its a date and she interested just go for it. look at her hold her gaze then go in for it, you can tell from the way she looks at you if she wants to make-out.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Heh. Ez!
Make eye contact with her, look into her eyes (You will know if she wants to make out or not) while you're close obviously, hold her hands or sides and go in for a PECK. A quick kiss like what you are accustomed too. Don't pull away. Just keep your mouth close to hers right after you peck and if she doesn't pull away or give you bad signs, go in for the kill.
Lik
Make eye contact with her, look into her eyes (You will know if she wants to make out or not) while you're close obviously, hold her hands or sides and go in for a PECK. A quick kiss like what you are accustomed too. Don't pull away. Just keep your mouth close to hers right after you peck and if she doesn't pull away or give you bad signs, go in for the kill.
Lik