"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Making out/Next step question...

LDBaha

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Ok this is a bit of a different question I suppose.
I'm 22 years old I am from Venezuela. I don't own a car (but i can borrow one!) and i live with my parents. I'm still in college getting my 2nd degree.

It's usual over here for guys to live at their parents all the way until they are married. The only way a guy would live alone would be if e went to a school on a different state or got a few roommates (but this is very very uncommon)

I've been reading and studying all this PUA stuff for like 6 months now and it's been going very well for me. I've met a bunch of girls and even gone on small first dates (coffee) or just go out with a group for drinks and stuff but i still need more practice.

Anyway

Here's the thing, I can get to the point when I know a girl feels attraction for me and actually wants to kiss me (or more). Usually I go out with them for coffee at a nice mall around here (around 6-7pm) depending on the girl (and my mood) i decide if i want to go see a movie with her, call it a night or go out to a nightclub or whatever...

Here's the thing, I have no idea where to make out with a girl other than a car/nightclub/movies(i don't like this one),
I can't invite my girl over to my house because my parents are here and i live in an apartment so making out on the couch is a no go (same for their place) there aren't really any places where you can go and be alone with a girl -under the stars- where you won't get freaking robbed -_- (i hate this).

Anyone has any ideas of what i can do?


So that has been roaming around my head for a while now

The other thing would be, how the heck do i sleep with a girl when my parents are at my place... I guess i have to rely on motels. Granted I'm not the most experienced guy but the girls that i've slept with we did it either here at my place when my parents were away or at their place...

So i don't know how to make a smooth transition from "i love making out with you and i want you" to "lets go to a motel and have sex all night" and still make it smooth and don't kill everything i've worked for, specially if we're out somewhere or in a car...

Damn i need to finish college and get my own place... or at least roommates.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you are ****ed and not literally :p

all you can do is organise a date around her seduction location. e.g. you go for drinks near her place, happen to bring a camera with photos on it but its out of battery or a laptop and then ask if she has a plug socket at home, cool ill show you them later.

that way you then have a smooth way of getting back to her room, other than that you have alley ways and parks.

hope that helps
 

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ummmm motels, hotels, buddys place
 

LDBaha

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well yes obviously motels/hotels the thing is, if you say to a girl "lets go to a motel" its gonna kill everything i think because if it isn't spontaneous she won't go for it.

Maybe i should just find a place to make out and when she's really turned on, stop and ask her then, hopefully she'll be like 'yes yes yes'
 
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