"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Making out... issue

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So, I've always been turned on by the act of making out, especially in the early stages with a girl. There's something about her being there with her clothes on, feeling her lips and heavy breathing while my hands explore new territories. It's like a wrapped up gift that I'm about to rip open. The anticipation really gets to me and it shows... down stairs ;) I'm probably more turned on before her clothes are off than after.

I don't act overeager, but my d!ck does and in some situations where making out doesn't lead to sex, it's blue balls galore. Now summers coming up so its shorts time and walking around with a hot chick is cool, but not so much with an obvious humongous boner. Anybody else have a problem with this? Any advice on how to keep it in check?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Recall that old Simpsons episode..

Picture someone, an ugly relative perhaps, in their birthday suit, or bikini..

Barney Gumble, circa '95, naked.

Honestly, whenever an issue like yours came up, I always reverted back to that one Simpsons episode...'think unsexy thoughts, think unsexy thoughts..'
 
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