"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making others laugh it's really precious skill to have.

jhonny9546

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There is a friend of mine from school whom I can't forget. It doesn't matter what mistakes he makes or how feminine or bad looking he is; it’s like having a comedian who adapts to every situation and always manages to make everyone laugh, including women. When he's not around, you obviously miss him because he made you laugh and feel good. (Let's say he is a narcisist who like to be in the center of attention).

Now, women are always around him. He is engaged and has this remarkable ability to make you laugh by inventing jokes or bringing situations to the extreme of hilarity. Usually, you remember him because he made you laugh, and during conversations with ten people, he always took command. The expectations of others were high for the jokes he made, often leading everyone else to fall silent just to hear if he had something else funny to say. He had other qualities as well, but this was his best.

However, this attitude is also what I had in my teens, and I don't think is considered mature here on the forum.


Now, I'm very curious how this quality change overtime, and you can still make people laugh and be interested in a more mature way, or if this, the childish version, it's just the top tier thing you can do. (As seen from many comedians, Just to cite an example
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another thing. When you are with someone, you two are hanging out, make them special. Buy something, be it a can of soda or something. Something small. Make them feel special basically.
 
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