"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Making New Friends In Uni/College

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Haven't posted in 3 months! Things have changed since then, and let's say I don't have the problems I had previously. Anyways:

I'm going to university (in Canada) this September. I wanna hear what your guys' opinions are on how to make friends in freshman year: maybe from experience or word of mouth. Parties don't count because they're obvious. By "friends" I mean both sexes.

I read somewhere where that I could sit beside a decent looking girl and just say "Am I in _____ class?" and go from there, since everyone is so anxious the first day/week.

Others? Thanks! :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Geee

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If your living on campus, be social and you're golden. If you're not then i suggest you change to on campus.
 
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