"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Making New Friends In Uni/College

Seismic

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Haven't posted in 3 months! Things have changed since then, and let's say I don't have the problems I had previously. Anyways:

I'm going to university (in Canada) this September. I wanna hear what your guys' opinions are on how to make friends in freshman year: maybe from experience or word of mouth. Parties don't count because they're obvious. By "friends" I mean both sexes.

I read somewhere where that I could sit beside a decent looking girl and just say "Am I in _____ class?" and go from there, since everyone is so anxious the first day/week.

Others? Thanks! :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Geee

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If your living on campus, be social and you're golden. If you're not then i suggest you change to on campus.
 
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