"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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making my neck thicker- any exercises like this?

Master Bates

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I have a naturally skinny neck, and I hate that it makes my head look kinda big. Now, I've noticed that if I stretch my arms behind my back, it raises my traps and makes my neck a lot thicker. It's the only thing I can do that does that. Are there any exercises that work the same way? Any kind of exercise that involves extending your arms behind your back like that? Would that help at all?

and yes I know what a deadlift is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've tried but no luck, I can do neck bridges with 70 lbs but my neck stays skinny.

I'm thinking its genetics. Just like how some guys have a bigger wider bone structure and can give the appearance of having more muscle some guys are more densely packed and appear to be small but are strong.

If you've got a skinny neck its probably always gonna be skinny but that doesn't mean it can't become very strong.

If you want to bulk up that will definitely help.
 

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I've got a pretty thick neck. Movements that can work neck muscles are: shrugs, deadlifts, reverse hypers, situps, band work, among others.

Genetics does play a role, but you can influence yours in the direction you want.
 

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I need to start doing some more neck work myself, mine is ridiculously weak. By the way, with situps.. don't pull on your neck it only causes injuries. Keep them in front of your head.
 

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Heavy deadlifts and shrugs helped me, I had a similar "problem".
Neck bridges I find a bit useless.
Neck harness you could do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MrS

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Quiksilver said:
I've got a pretty thick neck. Movements that can work neck muscles are: shrugs, deadlifts, reverse hypers, situps, band work, among others.

Genetics does play a role, but you can influence yours in the direction you want.
Whaaaaaaat?
Band work, excellent, though.
 

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behind-the-back barbell shrugs. There is a different and more limited ROM and is good every now and then to mix things up.
 

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This is something I have been working on for ages with poor success.
Synthol shots to the neck anyone?

I remember Charls Poliquin was against the neck harness because the load is not linear (it gets easer at the top of the movement). He recommended some massive, expensive machine similar to a leg extension machine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I dont' have a super thick neck by any means: its a bit over 16" and i'm 5'8" - 170. I notice heavy deadlifts and powercleans, especially powercleans, really help with trap development and that can make your neck thicker.

What do you deadlift/clean? What are your stats/measurements?
 
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