"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wskbb

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have recently been single again. i've been busy with school the past 2 years while working full-time. now that im done with school. i realize i dont have a lot of friends. im 28. i mean friends that are cool, have a real job maybe same interest in becoming a DJ..... most of my friends are either married or in a relationship, and they dont wanna hang out anymore OR they are just negative ppl. a lot of times i feel like im wasting the weekend...but i want to have a blast, date as many girls as i can. im have a good job, look decent, funny...i think i have what it takes. i just NEED to get out.......make new friends.

i've tried headin out to the club myself and it didn't work 2 well.

how do u meetin more interesting people in general?

things i would try next year :

1) join 24 hours fitness (should be able to meet cool ppl there while
getting in shape.
2) take nite class : dancing, hip hop, RE, other classes im interested in
3) join some kinda of club (not sure where / what clubs are available)

what else?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wskbb

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i think it's a legitimate question and some ppl here do go thru this stage.
but how come no response?
 

April_Infinite

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Yeah, I wonder about this subject also. You won't find how to make friends on the internet, or in very many books, it's such a basic social ability, that people expect you'd know how.
 
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