"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wskbb

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have recently been single again. i've been busy with school the past 2 years while working full-time. now that im done with school. i realize i dont have a lot of friends. im 28. i mean friends that are cool, have a real job maybe same interest in becoming a DJ..... most of my friends are either married or in a relationship, and they dont wanna hang out anymore OR they are just negative ppl. a lot of times i feel like im wasting the weekend...but i want to have a blast, date as many girls as i can. im have a good job, look decent, funny...i think i have what it takes. i just NEED to get out.......make new friends.

i've tried headin out to the club myself and it didn't work 2 well.

how do u meetin more interesting people in general?

things i would try next year :

1) join 24 hours fitness (should be able to meet cool ppl there while
getting in shape.
2) take nite class : dancing, hip hop, RE, other classes im interested in
3) join some kinda of club (not sure where / what clubs are available)

what else?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wskbb

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i think it's a legitimate question and some ppl here do go thru this stage.
but how come no response?
 

April_Infinite

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Yeah, I wonder about this subject also. You won't find how to make friends on the internet, or in very many books, it's such a basic social ability, that people expect you'd know how.
 
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