"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Making her think it's 'fate'

drift king

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Has anyone tried bringing into a conversation on a first date that 'you know i was planning on going next door but something told me to go to x location instead' in reference to the x location where you picked her up.

Has anyone managed to help use this to their advantage after a cold approach and on a first date to make her think it was fate that brought you together (rather than you were sarging and saw her)?

Women love that fate BS and 'it was meant to be' stuff.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thevilittletroll

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yes and it works to build an emotional connection. use this in comfort once she's attracted to you. its called rooting, its also a form of frame control, and compliance. you root the idea in her mind, its your frame, and if she buys into your frame, she will then comply to you requests. the one i use all the time is:

you know i wasnt even gonna come out tonight. my friends begged me, and i was like, ehhh i dont really feel good, rather just lay on the couch and catch up on some sleep. everything happens for a reason, and if i would'nt have come out tonight i never would have met an amazing person like you. must be fate.
 
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