"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Making her think it's 'fate'

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drift king

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Has anyone tried bringing into a conversation on a first date that 'you know i was planning on going next door but something told me to go to x location instead' in reference to the x location where you picked her up.

Has anyone managed to help use this to their advantage after a cold approach and on a first date to make her think it was fate that brought you together (rather than you were sarging and saw her)?

Women love that fate BS and 'it was meant to be' stuff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yes and it works to build an emotional connection. use this in comfort once she's attracted to you. its called rooting, its also a form of frame control, and compliance. you root the idea in her mind, its your frame, and if she buys into your frame, she will then comply to you requests. the one i use all the time is:

you know i wasnt even gonna come out tonight. my friends begged me, and i was like, ehhh i dont really feel good, rather just lay on the couch and catch up on some sleep. everything happens for a reason, and if i would'nt have come out tonight i never would have met an amazing person like you. must be fate.
 
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