Making her my **** buddy

[R1ch4rd]

A female friend who I've been mates for couple of years, so as my other "boy" mates. Out of the boys I'm in the top 3/4 best boy-friends she knows. Now out of them 3, I've got the best body, I am the most good looking, 8/10, funniest, and what it seems the most confident.
The reason i was asking about being a **** buddy, is because she is extremely flirty, and is talking about it, practicing, she is very sexually open, more than I've ever seen in a girl. She rubs your ****, grinds you, lets you touch her, shes dragged me into the toilet with her twice now. She has even admitted shes sexually frustrated. She does this with all the guy mates(mostly best ones). She also does it in a fun, light hearted way, so we also dont see it as shes really is trying it on. She has a BF in this period in her life, and she didn't do anything, and split up.

Her self shes got a real serious side, but is very high energy, ecentric. She is a good 7/10. I'm wondering how, and if it's possible that I can be a friend with benefits with. Do I ask like in a ****y, jokey way (we should be **** buddies).

Any ideas guys. I'm Uk by the way

 

[Captain]

You're her boy toy in the friendzone. She seems like an attention wh0re.

Worth a shot though. Don't ask about FWB, just get her alone sometime and initiate things (kiss her.)

Even better, take her out sometime, get her back to your place, and go as far as you can.

 

[R1ch4rd]

I wouldnt call it attention *****, she just really acts like that, everything she seems to do recently is actually sexual lol.
Were all in the friends zone, because were good friends. I'm not going to get her back to mine(because my life and in the UK, that's not really an option, but it doesn't matter lol) we was round her house(not just us) she let me rub baby oil over her, and she did it to me aswell.
Are you sure about the kiss(in my situation, and being in england, that just seem random, and will have a negative outcome. I prefer going for asking her,
I've got a good chance out of my friends, and this idea popped to mind couple days ago.

 

[Captain]

Are you sure about the kiss(in my situation, and being in england, that just seem random, and will have a negative outcome. I prefer going for asking her,
I've got a good chance out of my friends, and this idea popped to mind couple days ago.

Yes, women like men who act, and who take, not ask.

If you do end up asking, though, make sure you do it playfully, and don't make it seem like a huge deal.

 

[R1ch4rd]

Yeah but shes a girl, I'm a boy. Kissing her in this situation, I know it will just appear as wierd, were not her for love, just for fun.

yeah of course, it's got to be the right moment, and if i get bad response I know what to do lol

 

[shaunuk]

Richard, you're not the only guy who lives in the UK you know. How else do things happen besides YOU making a move in some way. Just snog the ***** and if it doesn't work, try again, and if that doesn't work...then she's not really interested is she?

About how it might have 'negative outcome'....Well you shouldn't be worried about a failed kiss attempt having negative outcome. You're trying to turn one of your best friends into a fvck buddy, so things aren't gonna be the same again if you succeed anyway. And by the very nature of fvck buddy relationships, it's likely to turn sour eventually anyway, so you've got a good chance of losing this mate eventually anyway.

So make a decision and go for it. If she's interested in having sex with you, slapping a kiss onto her chops should work if you do it in the right situation.

 

[R1ch4rd]

yeah i know its going to have consequences, and negative ones. I know what's at stake, it's not about her being interested. She's sexually frustrated, acts, and talks all sexual to ALL the boys. I've just simply wieghed out my chances, and the consequences of losing her as a mate, and have thought of giving her what she is craving.

 

[eaglez1177]

Just escalate on her and see how it goes. If she starts rubbing and kissing you, then take it up a step and start rubbing her back.

 

[R1ch4rd]

Eaglez that was what I was intending on. I'm going to start doing the sexual stuff to her FIRST, then keep going further. The only problem is we would never be alone, we will be with mates and that, unless we was at a party and in the room alone.
I've already rubed her back, she was in her bikini the other day when we was round, and let me rub baby oil all over her.

 

[eaglez1177]

Lol wow she just lets you rub baby oil all over her? Damn your lucky bro not many girls are this open sexually like you described.

And getting her alone is easy, just invite her to your house or anything. Theres a million ways to get her alone. If your with all your friends, just go to her and be like "Come with me I want to show you something", then put your hands over her eyes, and just walk her away from everyone else. I did this one time when I was with like ten people at a friends house just playin basketball outside, and I wound up getting head from the chick over in the bushes on the other side of the house.

 

[R1ch4rd]

Yeah, that's it. Least you get how sexually open she is. I love it, having a sexy cute girl with nice boobs let me touch her, and her touching me. I was searching through the pockets of her skirt, and she said "you like this", and i was like "so do you" and she just grinned.
Her and her mate do sex positions with you and they try to get your trousers down lol. They want to see my ****, and me naked lol. I'm thinking to build her touching her, see if I could even rub her good spot. Then next time they want to see it, say something like " Your going to have to do more than just look".

 

[Spade]

Yo dawg ur situ looks simple, get her alone fo a ****ty reason (e.g "like come n wathc a movie with me") then escalate...

....at end of the night wen uve shaggged her n she wants to leave tell her "we can hve movie night every week", **** like that man...u cud probly come up with other ones...n remember "JUST DO IT"(nike)