"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Making her jelous

Lotusman

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Hello Forum...
Was interested in this girl in a waning LTR about a year ago in my social group. Sensed a lot of attraction, IOIs and flirted with plenty of kino.. i asked her out a few times - she cancelled / suggested we meet with our friends - I admit I may have acted too desperately and let my oneitis show killing of her attraction then created some bad vibes. I walked away - since then i have focussed on my work and have experienced earth-shattering non-female realted stuff which i think has had a positive effect in changing me into a more confident person.

One year on and i've re-entered this social group, the same girl is there although single now - I am flirting with her again and pushing the boundaries everytime with kino.. she's playful but not as playful as me lol, Again i'm trying to not mis-interpret "friendship" with "attraction". Have held back from asking her out again unlike last time. On Friday I met a friend of hers who was cute flirted heavily with her danced all night took her to her apartment but no-sex. I'm not really that interested in her friend although she's attractive enough - i'm more interested in her lol I've been texting her friend and she wants to go out this weekend...

do you think it's a good idea to take her out, try my luck to get my main target jelous? (if she's genuinely interested of course) Will jelousy increase my chances with her ? / help break the deadlock? or re-ignite her interest again?

thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LegendBoy

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I don't have enough knowledge in making girls jealous. So someone would be better of helping you. Though there is the possibility she thinks your not interested and dislikes you if you go out with the other girl. But then again it may ignite jealousy or the opposite..

Not sure with this one....
 

Trapper

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show her a damn good time in the bed, and the rest of it is out of question.. .. good luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Distant Light

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Read about mystery's jealousy plotlines. I haven't read your post but if you've already fuvked her don't bother doing it because thats just going backwards instead of forward.
 

Remulak

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IMO the only way to make a girl jealous is to flirt with other girls in front of her but you have to be subtle about it and you have to drop hints about other girls even at that the only way it will work is if this girl likes you.
 
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