"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Making her jelous

Lotusman

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Hello Forum...
Was interested in this girl in a waning LTR about a year ago in my social group. Sensed a lot of attraction, IOIs and flirted with plenty of kino.. i asked her out a few times - she cancelled / suggested we meet with our friends - I admit I may have acted too desperately and let my oneitis show killing of her attraction then created some bad vibes. I walked away - since then i have focussed on my work and have experienced earth-shattering non-female realted stuff which i think has had a positive effect in changing me into a more confident person.

One year on and i've re-entered this social group, the same girl is there although single now - I am flirting with her again and pushing the boundaries everytime with kino.. she's playful but not as playful as me lol, Again i'm trying to not mis-interpret "friendship" with "attraction". Have held back from asking her out again unlike last time. On Friday I met a friend of hers who was cute flirted heavily with her danced all night took her to her apartment but no-sex. I'm not really that interested in her friend although she's attractive enough - i'm more interested in her lol I've been texting her friend and she wants to go out this weekend...

do you think it's a good idea to take her out, try my luck to get my main target jelous? (if she's genuinely interested of course) Will jelousy increase my chances with her ? / help break the deadlock? or re-ignite her interest again?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LegendBoy

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I don't have enough knowledge in making girls jealous. So someone would be better of helping you. Though there is the possibility she thinks your not interested and dislikes you if you go out with the other girl. But then again it may ignite jealousy or the opposite..

Not sure with this one....
 

Trapper

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show her a damn good time in the bed, and the rest of it is out of question.. .. good luck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Distant Light

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Read about mystery's jealousy plotlines. I haven't read your post but if you've already fuvked her don't bother doing it because thats just going backwards instead of forward.
 

Remulak

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IMO the only way to make a girl jealous is to flirt with other girls in front of her but you have to be subtle about it and you have to drop hints about other girls even at that the only way it will work is if this girl likes you.
 
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