Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Making Her A Girlfriend

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Ok heres the deal. Theres this girl that I liked and hung out with for over 1.5 years. I can tell she always wanted me but I never made a move (For some reason I always looked past her)

She is ****ing hot and now I want her. She sent me a message on facebook to IM her, so I did. We talked a lot online and had a lot of similarities.

She even IMed me and told me to go to her house. I went there and we went out for lunch. We hung out for a little at her house after, but I didnt make any moves or anything. I just kissed her on the cheek.

Since then shes been iming me /texting... I havent really done anything yet to hang out with her again.

On her facebook it says she wants a relationship. I really like her a lot and I would like to be her boyfriend. I kinda havent been looking for girlfriends since Ive been busy with school.

I need some advice to freshen up and get my game on. Please help!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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We hung out for a little at her house after, but I didnt make any moves or anything. I just kissed her on the cheek.

Just escalate next time. You are lucky to get a second chance. Research the kiss test - you just stroke her hair as you lokk into her eyes. If she will do this with you, then she wants you to kiss her. Then you start making out, then it goes from there.

If you want her to be your gf, then just keep having sex with her until she asks.
 
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You Were At Her House And You Didn't Make A Move??

Why Man Why
 
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Keep warming her up. Don't go too fast. But you need to maintain your masculinity, not seek her approval or validation, and be sexual in your interactions.
Don 't be shy.
Don't be timid.
Don't be awkward.
Don't be stilted and too in your head.
Don't feel uncomfortable.
Don't make her feel uncomfortabel.
Don't be "nice".
Don't buy her flowers, or cards, or candy..
Don't have awkward body language or posture.
Don't be too fidgety or twitchy.
Don't smile TOO much when you see her.
Don't be worried if you "make her mad" or "disapproves" of you.




Be comfortable. Be relaxed. be genuine. Be flirtatious. be sexual. Enjoy touching her. be playful, Be confident. Lead the interactions. Do what you want to do and take her along. Talk about fun things. Talk about your dreams and goals. Ask her what her dreams and goals are.
Take her into your world...
 
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learn how to escalate on a girl
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whenever a girl you want invites you to her house you have to make a move.

Were you scared or what?
 
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Don't be too concerned with what her facebook says about her interests in relationships, these things are generally highly inaccurate.

Other then that, sounds like you've got it. Just pull the trigger next time!
 
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SparkleMotion said:
Don't be too concerned with what her facebook says about her interests in relationships, these things are generally highly inaccurate.

Other then that, sounds like you've got it. Just pull the trigger next time!
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i agree! PULL THE TRIGGER!! she invited u over her house man. step ur game up! lol good luck man
 
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