"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Making Her A Girlfriend (Part II)

CORVETTE06

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here is an update to my old post -> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135113

After this hangout (mentioned in Part 1), i waited a couple days and sent her a text message asking her if she wanted to get dinner.

:: no response from her.

later that night i saw her at the bar. she was nice to me, we hung out for a little bit.

A few days later she asks me to chill again. We chilled, went back to her house and hung out. I tried makin out wit her the whole night but she didnt go for it. then before i leave she kisses me. whatever i thought that was weird.

Its been about a week now, i havent really imed her cuz usually she texts me. she hasnt texted me since then and we havent really spoke on IM that much. I havent seen her around....

*Remember, this is the girl who came after me and wanted to chill. not the other way around....

I like her now but it seems to me that she lost interest in me or something. Can anyone explain what the f-ck is goin on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's called one-itis and its gonna hurt you. You need to be playing the field, man. It could possibly turn into something, but a more likely outcome is that it wont because you are obviously stressing about it too much. She will soon realize this, if she has not already. If you just dont give a sh1t, like you didn't when you recieved her little facebook comment, then she would still be pursuing YOU! Now go ask some more hot chicks out!
 

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Read the title of your thread.



If you don't get what I mean, then read the DJ Bible and be enlighten.




PIMP
 

CORVETTE06

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OK i know that im not supposed to put the p*ssy on a pedastal...

i don't act like I want to be her boyfriend. Im just telling you guys i really like her. Im not just zonin in on this one girl. its just one of many that I like more than the others..

i'm afraid i might have lost her..
 

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CORVETTE06 said:
i'm afraid i might have lost her..
Yikes bro. You need to walk away, 'cuz you're about to lose your self-respect here. It's ok to like her, but being afraid to lose her at this point is very, very bad.

If you lose her something better will come along. It always does.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Obsidian

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yeah, you probably did lose her. Women like that are fickle. If she came onto you in the first place, she was probably a hor. Hors have loyalty to no one and are typically the most fickle of all. Maybe she liked you the first 1-2 times she saw you, but then she fell out of love quite fast.

something similar happened to me recently, but I chose not to put up with it when the girl started acting disrespectful. You should do the same.
 
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