"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Making girls think you are in a relationship

Hydrak

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2013
Messages
174
Reaction score
12
Location
Sweden
I had a gf a few months ago and had her picture on my wallpaper. While I was in a relationship, I was working part-time with a 19 year old who didn't have a high IL at the start. Then she saw the picture of my gf (HB7-8) when I was showing her something on the phone and you could see in her eyes she changed her notion about me instantly. :D

Women seem to like guys who other girls want (it's like a vicious circle), so it seems pretty obvious you could use this to your advantage. Have any of you used this as a tool and changed your status on facebook, dating websites and so on to "open relationship"? Trying to pose with as many HBs as possible and uploaded them @ social media?

I have a few dates next week and I'm thinking of using a random HB @ phone wallpaper just to increase IL ;) Or will it have the opposite effect?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

expos

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2013
Messages
792
Reaction score
132
Long story summarized.

Asked for a divorce last year. 3 year marriage, no kids, no alimony, easy break. Went no contact with my ex-wife for many months afterwards. Had to meet with her about some paperwork, I decided to be nice to her, and she treated me like garbage and said she's "seeing someone" now.

Oh really?

That was my cue to play hardball and get after some hotter chicks and rub it in my ex-wife's face for thinking she's better off without me. I hooked up with two girls (no sex), I got friend-zoned a few times, but I didn't care. It's a numbers thing for me. I've got younger women writing really good stuff about
me on my wall and tagging me in places with them. I'm not FB friends with the ex-wife obviously, but my page is public so she can read everything. I envision her reading this stuff and literally bawling her eyes out.

I think it will be a matter of time before the ex-wife starts her tailspin - but the goal here is to inflict the most pain possible on my wife while attracting other girls. If my ex-wife comes back, it will only be for sex, which I'm cool with. I now look more valuable than ever to her (and other girls)....and payback is a b**ch.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top