"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys. So I'm looking to greatly expand my social circle. It probably sounds kinda lame but I wanna be hanging out with the 'popular' guys i.e. the ones who hang with a lot of girls, and who generally have a lot going for them in their social life. At the moment I'm on vacation but will be returning to university in a couple of months. I'm just wondering where can I go and what can I do to make friends whilst i'm off and equally importantly when I'm back at uni?

I'm not a loner or anything by any means, but the only kind of people I seem to make friends with are people who like myself have nothing going on in their social life. I seem to be stuck inside half of the time because my friends are doing nothing but messing about on video games etc. I'm desperate to get this aspect of my life (amongst others) sorted out, so that this year at uni can be more enjoyable :D

Any help would be -greatly- appreciated. Cheers guys!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Now I don't like to bump my own threads, but I fear it'll slip through the cracks otherwise. Any advice please guys?
 
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I had this problem starting out too
I hated clubs, bars so here's what i did
make friends at work/school
one friend will introduce you to a few others
then those new others will lead to even more others
then you have a network of people you can hangout with
EXPAND the circle bro
 
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Just be yourself. You sound like a very nice person, so I would respect what they like and try do hang out with them doing what they like at first. Then try to show them your interests and see if they will try some of them.
 
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Greatly appreciate the comments. How do I go about meeting people outside of uni though? Is joining sporting clubs etc. the only real way?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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in uni are you living in a dorm? if so it will be quite easy to make friends, just strike up convos with other guys in the dorm and talk about guy sh1t like parties, girls, sports, etc. then get their number and hit them up to get lunch and party and that type of shiz. same thing with class, or anywhere really... just have a normal convo with them and tell them yall should hang out. also it helps to be interesting and not look like a nerd
 
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Nope I'm not in a dorm. I'm living at home for the moment. Don't worry I don't look like a nerd ;)
 
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