"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Making friends with women so that they'd introduce you to their hot friends

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One of the very popular advices given is that you should make friends with women, as they might have some hot friends that they could introduce you to. It makes perfect sense in theory, but for some reason, in practice, for me, it has never materialized. If the woman is interested in me, she won't hook me up with any of her girls. If she isn't interested in me, she won't, either, and is even less likely to introduce me to her GFs. However, guys that I befriend do a much better job at introducing me to their female friends. Is there something I'm missing out on? :confused: What's your experience regarding this matter?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it works to an extent, from my experience most girls that I befriend tend to keep me to themselves or cornered off I think girls are afriad that a another girl will still away their friend too.
 
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Tookie said:
it works to an extent, from my experience most girls that I befriend tend to keep me to themselves or cornered off I think girls are afriad that a another girl will still away their friend too.
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exactly...

and most girls i date have friends who hate me damn that always happens...
 
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