"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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making eye contact with strangers you walk past

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starfishandcoffee

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Why do most people flat-out not look back? (I'm talking with walking down the street, a hallway, etc.) It's starting to irk me and make me think that maybe I've got to change up my body language.

Around one in ten of the women that I make strong eye-contact with return it. The ones who don't sure as hell know you're looking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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because they are uncomfortable? eye contact with a smile (not abig cheesy grin) will get more response. a hello, hi etc will help, makes people feel good, doesnt cost anything and makes you feel good too, just keep doing it, dont worry about the ones who dont respond
 
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