"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Made some approaches so far been going good go some numbers, more importantly I feel myself getting a better. Quick question a couple girls interrupted me in the middle of my convo saying I have to make a call the other said I have to get back to my i-pod.

Is there a way to handle it?
Was I showing too much interest?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Start to sense those moments coming. Learn to end things first.

Usually saying, "Hey I gotta run, it was a pleasure talking to you," works just fine.

It's not a lie either. They are technically helping you improve yourself, and hopefully you were able to improve their day a bit so it really WAS a pleasure.

That is simple, easy to remember and a lot better than hanging around waiting for them to have time for you.
 
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Hey man thanks for the response, ill remember that!

This forum is Great I’ve been here sometime not really posting much but I’ve read many post and I want to thank all those who drop knowledge and keep this site moving.
I lost my virginity on this forum.:up:

I’ve been focusing more on the “having a passion” part of the game. Now I have to complete the circle and destroy this women thing completely.

I have been doing a lot of approaches since I started the thread most of my experiences good. Showed a lot of sexuality during a few of them, which is giving me a lot of hope. Have about 3 numbers who actually show significant interest. So I’m going to go for dates and see how it plays out.

The problem that I have to overcome is doubt In my ability to hold a conversation. I felt my self slipping today. Talking to this pretty girl and thinking “she is too intelligent and skilled in communicating for me to go after”. I love it when I have the mentality that I’m going to do everything and anything to get this girl regardless of how many times I stumble over words. No excuses and no only targeting the foreign girls.

So my journal is to keep me on point. Also I joined a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu School today, with a weight room. I’m so excited and I have so much energy after day one probable why I’m writing this post at 1AM. Pook said Testosterone is a key so let’s go.

Also I have to pat myself on the back, I’ve been consistently approaching women. I think it’s because I’m more mature now, I know life ain’t forever, people die for real man. Plus I know the fear comes back if you’re not on it every day.

Peace
 
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