"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Lol. I'll have to switch on my inner Bond persona for that.

But I need that confidence that comes from choosing to walk away from something that made me miserable, and facing my fear of change and moving on with my career, which I intend to do ASAP. I know I carry that around with me. That will translate to more confidence all around.
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Sean Connery Bond or Pierce Brosnan Bond (lol). One last bit of information that will help you along your way. It's much easier to walk toward something than to walk away from something.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah you're right. I'm not leaving something bad as much as going towards something great. When you focus on the bad thing and how much you hate it you get addicted to that drama and end up identifying with it... which is why I stayed so long. D'oh!
 
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