"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol. I'll have to switch on my inner Bond persona for that.

But I need that confidence that comes from choosing to walk away from something that made me miserable, and facing my fear of change and moving on with my career, which I intend to do ASAP. I know I carry that around with me. That will translate to more confidence all around.
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Sean Connery Bond or Pierce Brosnan Bond (lol). One last bit of information that will help you along your way. It's much easier to walk toward something than to walk away from something.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah you're right. I'm not leaving something bad as much as going towards something great. When you focus on the bad thing and how much you hate it you get addicted to that drama and end up identifying with it... which is why I stayed so long. D'oh!
 
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