Making a girl wait 7 days; too long?

[JT47319]

Originally posted by JasonR
well, we will see, wont we.

but calling within 2 days is needy and pathetic, and for the guy calling on the SAME night.

wow, that is about as needy as a human being can get.

you're saying this;


"PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE OH POWERFUL WOMAN, DO NOT FORGET ME, I DIDNT MAKE A GOOD ENOUGH IMPRESSION ON YOU WHEN I ASKED FOR YOUR NUMBER SO IM MAKING UP FOR IT BY PESTERING YOU ON THE PHONE!! P.S PLEASE REMEMBER ME!!"

Spoken like a true Keyboard Jockey.

Call the same night and you may get yourself a booty call that very night.

 

[Cesare Cardinali]

JT, you beat me to it.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

JT47319 and cesare cardinali, you guys beat me to it.

This jasonR guy definitly is a keyboard jockey and just doesnt understand women...pathetic.

 

[JasonR]

Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
JT47319 and cesare cardinali, you guys beat me to it.

This jasonR guy definitly is a keyboard jockey and just doesnt understand women...pathetic.

coming from you guys that doesnt really mean much.

 

[JasonR]

you guys can continue being lapdogs all your lives

 

[Cesare Cardinali]

I am not sure if I should wait seven days to respond to this lame a$$? What do you guys think? Too long?

 

[MindOverMatter]

You can't put a rule on something like this, you've been watching Swingers too much.

Myth 1: Every guy calls the next day, by waiting 2-3 days to call, you become unique, something she's never seen before, it will make you look like a challenge, and the b!tch will love you for it.

FALSE. Every guy I know waits several days before calling. Waiting several days to call MAY have been unique once, but right now, it's a social norm. Every guy does it, and every girl knows it.

Myth 2. Calling the next day will make you look desperate and will scare her off.

FALSE again. If a girl is interested in you, calling the next day wont scare her off. If she's interested in you, she will be happy to hear from you. In my personal experiance, this has been proven true. I don't follow this rule, I'll call the next day and still hook up.

The only time a girl will be scared off and think you're desperate is if she wasn't into you in the first place. In which case, waiting several days wouldn't have changed sh!t.


My opinion?

Call her 3-7 days later if that's what works out for you. Each person has their own different style of the game, and what works for some may not work for others. Personally, I don't follow a rule that is written in stone (except never take a cheater back). If I feel like calling her the next day, I'll do it. If I'm busy and don't have time for it, I'll call her when I have time. One thing I wont do is use something that doesn't feel natural just to raise some b!tch's interest level. I approach at least 1 girl a day, even when I'm in a relationship, just for practice. It's her job to raise my interest level, not the other way around.

IMO, that's why so many of you DJs fail and end up coming back here. You still see the world as women qualifying men, instead of men chosing women. Even though you know most of the game, you still don't have that attitude that places you higher up in the foodchain then females. It's the woman's job to tame you, not the other way around.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Originally posted by JasonR
well, we will see, wont we.

but calling within 2 days is needy and pathetic, and for the guy calling on the SAME night.

wow, that is about as needy as a human being can get.

you're saying this;


"PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE OH POWERFUL WOMAN, DO NOT FORGET ME, I DIDNT MAKE A GOOD ENOUGH IMPRESSION ON YOU WHEN I ASKED FOR YOUR NUMBER SO IM MAKING UP FOR IT BY PESTERING YOU ON THE PHONE!! P.S PLEASE REMEMBER ME!!"

Please go back to your keyboardjockying because you have no idea what you are talking about.

Ok thanks

 

[Sirducer]

Always try and call the next day! If not then SMS and get them into an open and talkative mood for when you do call.

When you ring the next day it only makes it so much easier for her to recognise you and pick up where you both left off, also chicks know that guys play these waiting games so if you wait to call then you will be looked upon as a little player with **** game.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Yepp! I even call the SAME NIGHT often if it's a club pickup =)

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Yepp! I even call the SAME NIGHT often if it's a club pickup =)

I remember getting flamed on the phone for not calling a girl after I took her out on the town. That made me realize she was a bit psycho (how can you get mad a person you had ONE date with), but it also made me realize how women value these little things. She will think that a guy who calls the same night ("to make sure she got home okay") is chivalrous, and gentlemanly. She will start to think of you as a man, because she'll process that action as "manly protectiveness" - she will be conditioned to submit because that makes her feel feminine, or "ladylike"). Pretty ridiculous if you think about it - but romance is still important to her when all you did was grind against each other and lick each others' faces with beer-stained breath that night, upon first meeting. These will be important to you when you're trying to get in her pants.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

to JasonR,

STFU *****!!!!!!

you dont know sh!t about how women work and you have no idea what you are talking about, you keyboard jockey dork ass geek!!!

STFU!
go practice your keyboard jockeying elsewhere.