Making a girl laugh is the key to her heart--->what a joke

[JdelaSilviera]

Hi guys need a quick male opinion

Everyday it seems to me that making a girl cry is the key to her heart..... but here it goes, since everyone talks about the importance of making women laugh.

I notice that almost any guy with average sense of humor can make girls laugh like crazy, I´m not particularly funny and I notice that women laugh a lot more at my jokes that my guy friends do.

I see also a lot of fat guys (for some reasons they are always funny), or jokers that can make almost women orgasm with laugh and they get no where.

Also I think that at the moment you start acting funny (specially if your not that type all the time), women automatically know you are trying to please them, I think a joke once in a while is fine but too much and they perceive your intents too soon. In my view it´s vital that you don´t laugh at your jokes before they do...

What is your opinion, about the importance of making a girl laugh, is that overrated? Or are guys simply overdoing it and screwing their chances?

 

[Lexington]

Making a woman laugh isn't going to hurt your chances with her, but humor alone isn't enough to get into a woman's pants. There has to be sexual attraction. A fat, ugly and unkempt guy can make a woman laugh her ass off. That doesn't mean she's going to jump his bone.

Humor is a great way to build rapport and to break down her barriers. But after the ice has been broken and she's let down her guard, you have to do something with it. Making her laugh doesn't necessarily make her horny.

 

[nismo-4]

Whoever said that sh*t failed geography!

There has to be attraction in there somewhere. Jokes alone just won't cut it. If there's attraction before hand, the girl is more likely to laugh at all your jokes even if they're outdated and corny.

Point is, like Lexington said, use humor to break down barriers or break the ice. Then proceed to make your move.

 

[the305]

When a girl says "i want a guy to make me laugh". That specifically means: have a good time, have a sense of humor that we can BOTH vibe off of that does NOT me "i want a guy to tell me jokes".

FUN is the main concern here, if you can leave a girl in a better mode then before you approached her. You WILL be remembered.

Some food for thought. When a girl says "Yeah the305, he is really cool". What do you think that means?

 

[bukowski_merit]

I'd say being able to make a woman smile is a lot more powerful than making her laugh... i actually don't think i make women laugh that much... but i sure as fvck make them smile...

sometimes i'd rather make a woman angry though (if i just want some good rough sex that night)... depends on what outcome im looking for....

making a woman cry can work, but it depends on why....

if she's crying because you verbally insulted her or physically assaulted her - and she's falling more in love with you because of it - then there's something seriously wrong with her! (and yes, there's something seriously wrong with a lot of women)

If she's crying because you've frustrated her, made her jealous, or she has a fear of losing you and is expressing it - then - that's some good emotion there! Ultimate compliment!

 

[Speculator E]

I've questioned on what women mean when they say they like a guy that makes them laugh. I don't think they mean they want guys to crack jokes. If that was true than comedians would be getting laid like crazy. Which is not happening.

I've noticed on countless times that interested women would just laugh on almost any half-decent things I would say. And I don't consider myself to be a funny guy. I don't try to crack jokes. The only common denominator is that these women are attracted to me first and their attraction causes them laugh uncontrollably.

Therefore when I hear a woman say she "wants a guy that makes her laugh", it's really woman-ese for "I want a hot guy that causes me to laugh uncontrollably because I'm so damn attracted to him." Ha ha.

 

[Desdinova]

Telling jokes to a girl is one thing. Having the confidence to make fun of yourself and even bring a woman into the joke will make you interesting.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Making her smile as in complimenting her? Please, elaborate.

Is complimenting her the only way you could think of to make a woman smile? While "sometimes" true - there are many ways to make women smile (a woman will not always smile to a compliment; especially if she didn't work for it). Here's a few:

If you give a woman a good connection, good rapport, good conversation, etc - then smiles will naturally begin to show up.

If you get a little teasing back and fourth with a woman - smiles show up.

With some women - if you call them on their bullsh!t and they know they were just bsing - they'll smile.

I don't think this one needs to be said - but having really amazing $ex with a woman will normally result in her not being able to stop smiling.

If she has butterflies in her stomach for you/oxytocin running wild in her - then she should smile just seeing you; just being in your presence; if you just give her a "look" that tells her too.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

I almost HAVE to tell jokes when I'm having a good time. Its just in my nature, and its about me having fun. Its a sickening feeling when that starts to shift into "pleasing" mode, and its not hard to correct. There is a huge difference.

The quality of the jokes, for one. When you're approval-seeking, they pretty much suck, because you're going for what you 'think' will be funny to certain people, rather than just letting the creativity flow and bringing your own personality into it . . no matter the situation.

I can honestly say I've ruined many more chances not 'being funny' or telling too many jokes, but by THINKING "I'm being funny and telling too many jokes, I'm approval seeking, oh no! Abort!"

Just let it flow.

That said, this thing about it being some magic key to get any girl is bullsh*t.