Making a competition of it all

[Gunner26]

Hey guys, been out and about recently, doing uni work and having a good time with my mates.

So some of my housemates have started to up their game in regards to how they approach and deal with women, one of my housemates, a natural has really pulled it out of the bag, pulling ONS' at least once a week for roughly 5/6 weeks now.

The other guy, like me hasn't got any sex, but he has been chatting to new people and getting himself involved with new activities and seems to really be getting somewhere with some of the girls he's speaking too. He's even managed to talk to a girl he has a crush on, and is now looking to make a move on her next time they meet.

Watching my mates really up their game, or at least try to seems to be spurring me on to perform better as well. In a sense I guess I'm trying to become more like my natural friend, and out-perform my other housemate who is in a similar position to me in that he doesn't have a lot of experience. It's a friendly competition, but one I seem to be really striving to win at. It's paying off as well and the highlights are that I've managed to make out with a girl that I'm friends with, and never would have tried it on with before, and have also introduced myself to a new girl in lectures who I have been *****ing out of talking to for the best part of a year. I feel really good about this.

Just wondering if you guys have ever had any similar experiences/situations where you have found your friends starting to perform better with women and it having a positive effect on you.

On a side note I have been going gym consistently for about 2 months now, and while I don't look bigger I am stronger, and this has helped me feel even better about myself and probably has gone a long way to making me feel and act the way I am at the moment.

Gunner

 

[Stort_Brød]

Good stuff bro. If you take a closer look at it all successful people only surround themselves with other successful people and that all happens for many reasons. To gather information subconsciously as well as consciously, they always have someone to bounce ideas off, they create friendly competition and much more. it doesn't only apply to the professional world but to the dating world, your hobbies and so on.

so you are moving in the right direction with the company you keep, as the people you frequent will be the ones who's attitudes and habits will rub off on you.

 

[Gunner26]

I agree with you mate, successful people do seem to gather together more often.

Interesting thing is I've been hanging out with these guys for over 2 years now, however we all moved in together last month for the first time in student accommodation and since then I've seen changes. I fully believe that this new atmosphere has had an effect on us as we are talking about women in the house frequently.

Gunner

 

[Mr Wright]

Yeah, broke up with my girlfriend just over a week ago and have already bagged 3 girls. In my friendship group at uni, getting laid is normal, whilst I was in a relationship I did get a bit jealous. But I've been hanging with the boys more since the break up and I remember one night about 6-7 of us all pulled; it does rub off on you.

It's weird though because all we ever seem to do is hang out, drink, talk to the odd girl then some poor unsuspecting girl walks past, a quick flirt and shes game.

My goal now is to set up a rotation of girls and just enjoy my final year.

 

[Gunner26]

Haha Mr Wright I understand that as well. Normally if I pull it's a complete random girl who just happens to be walking past, or dancing nearby. Normally I say less than 5 words to them before we make out. It does feel good knowing that I've got that in my locker, however it's probably my strongest area, I'm still not great at building attraction through talking, body language and action is where I feel confident.

Maybe it's me, but on a night out at least, if I try talking to them and get rejected, it feels worse than me just giving them the eyes and her turning around immediately in disgust ha.

A rotation of girls would be good for me, but I need to be realistic and get one in the bag first, obviously I'll talk to everyone, but baby steps. I find getting on a role takes momentum which I haven't quite got yet.

Gunner