"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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warrior1

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is one of the most insulting lines to woman you can say is

"Oh that's how you look without makeup?"

I use to thought of that line as funny but i went to a skin plae and had lot of pimple spots popped and now have like
15+ spots on my face and i look horrible. I put on makeup now b/c i cannot go outside like this and see why woman put it on.

Would most woman not like you anymore if they found out you don't look like what you really look without makeup?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigmil

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makeup on a guy? If I had your problem buddy I would get some ance med from the doc before I used makeup. Talk to your doctor.
 

Freddy1

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Check out a dermitologist.
Use skin tone pimple cream for now.
 

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I use concealer to cover up the red marks from former pimples; they take a while to dissapear. I'm not ashamed to admit it. I believe it improves my apperance.

I find its more of a mental boost than anything. If I feel mentally at my best, then I act mentally at my best.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybnoob

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Makeup is a disease of 21st century..
If i would want my girl to look good without makeup and hardly ever wear it..
I dont want some fake human being
 

Freddy1

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Check out the dermatologist Warrior. They could do alot of things now.
They can even use dry ice treament to burn off old layers of skin. (So healthy skin grows beneath the old skin.)
 

warrior1

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i did went to dermatologist. She gave me bp 5 percent wash and a foam. She also said makeup is not bad at all as long as its noncosmegic.
 

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i find make up made my zits worse in highschool. i wore it to cover the ones i had and to fit in with the other girls.
it just made more.

now i dont even wear it and im a chick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tomatoes

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The only guys who wear makeup are Boy Bands and Gay people......Wait they are the same thing. See a doctor. Go to Boots....Half price on skin care....


Sarge On!
 

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Ok I used to get a few pimples,not out of control,but here is what I did that REALLY helped to where I have no or one pimples at a time.

~I stopped rubbing my face,try not to touch your face.You have alot of dirt and junk on your hands that you only rub into your face.
~I bought some Oxy pads and applied them to my face at lunch and before bed time.(First month,after that I only use them right before bed)
~I also picked up some "Clearisel" tinted cream. It really works on any existing zits/pimples and if you have those "pre-pimple" to suppress them to where they dont even show up.
~Halfway through the day go and look at your nose in the mirror,does it looks like it has some "grease" looking stuff on it? Go get a paper towel,napkin or whatever and absord it so it isnt rubbed in.

Keep in mind I NEVER changed my eating habits,I still ate pizzia,hamburgers,tacos you name it,anything greasy.

Try to avoid makeup if you can,"man it out". I still remember when a friend of mine used make up to cover up a pimple at a 8th grade dance. He did it ONCE,on ONE small spot and I still remember seven years later,thats how out of place make up is on guys.
 
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