"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Makes 0 sense. chick i was talking to liked me now ignoring.

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Ive been talking to this chick off and on for a month. Last week i did tell her about my situation and stuff and said sorry to hear but was down to come over and everything. Since saturday though she been ignoring me conpletley sebt like 1 text. What is the deal? Should i call her out or tell her peace?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Was talking to an HB8 who was really into me but I was more into another girl so I didn't give her the most attention.

I asked the HB8 I wasn't really feeling if she wanted to hang out and she said she'd love to. I told her cool. I'll text you next week some time and I can see when we can hang out and that I'm not a big texter. I did that because I did not actually want to hang out because I preferred another option. 4/5 hours later, she replies saying she's looking forward to hearing from me next week. I text her the next week , she ignores my text and blocks me on FB.

You never know why. Could've been I wasn't available enough and she thought I was playing games. Could've been an ex came back into the picture. Could've been anything. Lol. Who cares, move on.
 

Starfvcks 64

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I want to respond to your questions seriously but you always come off as a troll.

So i'll keep it short and simple: girls have a ton of options and are almost constantly considering them. when she goes ghost, you go ghost. "off and on" for over a month without sex mostly always means she has no interest in you sexually.
 

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Starfvcks 64 said:
I want to respond to your questions seriously but you always come off as a troll.

So i'll keep it short and simple: girls have a ton of options and are almost constantly considering them. when she goes ghost, you go ghost. "off and on" for over a month without sex mostly always means she has no interest in you sexually.
Seriously, right? He posts this kind of stuff all the time, and most of the time I can't even understand it. Look at his reputation lol

In any case, what does it mean you told her about your "situation"? Sounds to me you went in too hard and clingy so she lost interest.
Cut your losses, forget her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Starfvcks 64

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thelonewolflegend said:
How is this beta?
Continually working to earn a girls attention is the definition of beta.
 

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She has no interest and you care too much. That's beta.

Drop her ass and move on, she already did that to you.

But have you though of how strong you came on to her? That pushed her back to that a-hole football player who cares none for her feelings.

Case closed.
 
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Ok i dont understand how it pushed her away when i wanted her to come over wnd she wouldn't im not gonna ask all the time. Do i tell her im gonna delete her and move on
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You don't understand because you haven't read the dj bible as you were advised to. Troll is trolling.
 
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