"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Makes 0 sense. chick i was talking to liked me now ignoring.

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Ive been talking to this chick off and on for a month. Last week i did tell her about my situation and stuff and said sorry to hear but was down to come over and everything. Since saturday though she been ignoring me conpletley sebt like 1 text. What is the deal? Should i call her out or tell her peace?
 

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Was talking to an HB8 who was really into me but I was more into another girl so I didn't give her the most attention.

I asked the HB8 I wasn't really feeling if she wanted to hang out and she said she'd love to. I told her cool. I'll text you next week some time and I can see when we can hang out and that I'm not a big texter. I did that because I did not actually want to hang out because I preferred another option. 4/5 hours later, she replies saying she's looking forward to hearing from me next week. I text her the next week , she ignores my text and blocks me on FB.

You never know why. Could've been I wasn't available enough and she thought I was playing games. Could've been an ex came back into the picture. Could've been anything. Lol. Who cares, move on.
 

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I want to respond to your questions seriously but you always come off as a troll.

So i'll keep it short and simple: girls have a ton of options and are almost constantly considering them. when she goes ghost, you go ghost. "off and on" for over a month without sex mostly always means she has no interest in you sexually.
 

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Starfvcks 64 said:
I want to respond to your questions seriously but you always come off as a troll.

So i'll keep it short and simple: girls have a ton of options and are almost constantly considering them. when she goes ghost, you go ghost. "off and on" for over a month without sex mostly always means she has no interest in you sexually.
Seriously, right? He posts this kind of stuff all the time, and most of the time I can't even understand it. Look at his reputation lol

In any case, what does it mean you told her about your "situation"? Sounds to me you went in too hard and clingy so she lost interest.
Cut your losses, forget her.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Starfvcks 64

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thelonewolflegend said:
How is this beta?
Continually working to earn a girls attention is the definition of beta.
 

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She has no interest and you care too much. That's beta.

Drop her ass and move on, she already did that to you.

But have you though of how strong you came on to her? That pushed her back to that a-hole football player who cares none for her feelings.

Case closed.
 
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Ok i dont understand how it pushed her away when i wanted her to come over wnd she wouldn't im not gonna ask all the time. Do i tell her im gonna delete her and move on
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You don't understand because you haven't read the dj bible as you were advised to. Troll is trolling.
 
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