"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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makeout goals?

7onriverI f

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anyone have any makeout goals? seeing how many makeouts they can get in a night?
I had three the other night from chicks and another 3-4 I could of had if I allowed it from guys trying it on me.

I'm aiming to try and get 10 in one night from 10 different chicks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Great job on these numbers!
Btw how/were do you pull these off during covid? (given that many clubs/bars are dead). Asking for a friend :p
 

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anyone have any makeout goals? seeing how many makeouts they can get in a night?
I had three the other night from chicks and another 3-4 I could of had if I allowed it from guys trying it on me.

I'm aiming to try and get 10 in one night from 10 different chicks.
To each their own.

I love pickup and cold approach but I have never been particularly fond with PDA. I am DISCREET. I cannot stress this enough. For me, I rather pull and let the following flow.

If that is your game and it gets you results, power to you. Myself, I don't unless getting her back. In a car, bathroom pull, hotel, and anywhere i can smash. If you are scared or timid to esculate then, this is useful. Personally, i have a series of SNL pulls from ba4s, clibs, house parties and at no point did i make out until i was about to take my d out.

There's more than one way to crack an egg but i digress.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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i changed my mind. i'm not doing this anymore.
Why?

IME, heavy pre esculation provokes **** blocks, slut defence, mother bird, and a number of other things. I found the first sign of peak in the interactions and it means go time. As in, the chemistry is at all time high. Take her hand, lead her out. Pull. Or next.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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