"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChalengeGuyFan

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I want to travel, to study abroad, to meet new people and immerse myself into new cultures; I want to have a thousand experiences in a thousand different places around the world.

This is the life I desire and I am sure there are many more like myself.

Did you do something similar?
Are you currently into something like this?
Is this into your plans?

Share your experiences please.
How did you spot the opportunities? How was everything like? Finances - where from?

Please write down anything you'd like to share.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If my medical waiver doesnt pull through for the Army, I have a back up plan. I applied with ECC which is a school in Japan to teach English. Although im not sure sure how they will receive me, being that I am also Asian and they typically expect someone with blond hair and blue eyes.

Im doing it for all the reasons you just said...I want to see what its like living in other countries for awhile....plus im doing it because I heard you can pull mad pvssy.
 
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I'm in the same boat. I've done some travelling, but only for short holidays and would like to experience living in another country for a longer period of time. I am hoping to go to China next year, also to teach English. I have been studying Mandarin for the last year and this will give me the opportunity to learn the language faster. I love the food, culture and of course the women of China and hopefully I will be able to travel around this vast country and also neighbouring countries like Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, etc.
 
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Nice advantage, you native English speakers! :)

I met a woman who came here in Romania on that exact mission. She was 40, looking like a 30 y.o. and EXTREMELY hot. I danced her around and we were entertaining each other nicely. Damn, how I wish I tapped that ass. :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am a nurse and have worked all over the country. Not quite the world but looking to get into that racket. There's a nursing shortage all over the world I hear. My daughter is a little young to be overseas in my opinion though so it will have to wait for now.

I see that's you're 21. If you haven't gone to college or even if you're going for a Master's I can recommend SUNY Maritime in New York. I've had several friends go there and they all have jobs with alot of travel and adventures around the world. Plus the pay is very nice. I believe they make more than any other college just out of the gate.
 
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FUZZX!
Sosuave needs you!
 
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This Sunday night I got pretty drunk, didn't even sleep and at 4 AM I took the train to Sibiu alone. I'm sure you know about it because you are also from Romania.

Beautiful town. I spent 2 incredible days there drinking, partying and visiting with the locals.
 
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