"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Make up ur mind Biatch... What's your view's?

MMA Juan

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Hi Fellas,

A few days ago i was in this training course for work. This girl i'm interested in was gonna be there, so of course i dressed casual but impressive. I've been training for a few years so i have quite a good athletic physique, so i wore a top that showed some definition on my upper body.

While on the course i caught her checkin me out a few times, but when i went over her place that night she made a comment along the lines of you look big, but not attractive big.

The funny thing is however, about a week before she was saying to me how the loves my arms n chest and reckons i look really hot.

That's why the all of a sudden comment i was like WTF- if anything i have lost weight because i'm been cutting up for an upcoming fight.

What do you guys reckon, i think maybe because there were a large group of girls in the course maybe she felt insecure with me dressing like that, there were other girls looking to. What's your opinion playaz? Throw at me what you got, Peace... :cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Adrian

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It's a test. She just wanted to judge your reaction. She clearly finds you attractive if she was checking you out and giving you compliments. Don't let a stupid comment like that throw you off your game.
 

Cremasta

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MMA Juan said:
she made a comment along the lines of you look big, but not attractive big.
This was a pretty amateurish neg-hit from her. Next time, let your inner smartarse out and see if she can take it. Something like "Thanks, you look cuddly... but not attractive cuddly".
 

MMA Juan

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Haha, i like that
 
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