"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Make them want to hold doors for you.

Iamnotacrook

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I was stopping to get bread and a 2-liter this afternoon, pimped out as usual... I see out of the corner of my eye, a really hot chick leaving the store. As I'm like five steps away, she's holding the door for me. I'm in no hurry, let the ***** wait. I start to reach for the handle, she lets go for a second and apologizes, as I've still yet to grab the handle(damn I'm slow). So she's still holding the door, I of course grab where she's touching. "Why, thank you." :D and there was this awkward moment of my space being invaded as I could not enter without pushing her out of the way. So as she's leaving, all I could say is "Farewell". Then I got the coke and the loaf of bread I came for.

Thank you, goodnight.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Iamnotacrook

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Hahaha, you think I'm crazy now, and a troll. Well, there's only one thing I can think of that I did wrong...

I should've complimented her. Even if only her 'cuteness', she was nervous enough, probably would've taken damn near any compliment with enthusiasm, so there's my answer.

1. Compliment
2. Wait prompt
3. Make her sweat it out
4. Get the damn number

I am supposed to be Don Juan. Hell if I can't open a needy AFC.
 
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