"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Make them know you dont like them more than they like you

FranklinsTower

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Ok,my girlfriend actually said she thinks i like her more than she likes me. How do you turn that around the don juan way?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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flippinfreak

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With time...

I'd say your in a bad spot right now... She gave you a verbal IOD.

I don't know any of the details though... speak up.
 

iCandy

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actions speak louder than words.

Show it don't say it.
 

Skilla_Staz

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What Would Staz Do? Flirt with other girls. Nothing too serious. Just show her that she needs to get her butt in gear and stop playing these childish games, or else you're out. Simply put.
 
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